So, on the website myspace a guy recently added me (I know him from school.) and he asked me out. I said yes, and then it turns out that it was a fake myspace all along. And he didn't really ask me out, one of his stupid friends did. So now, I'm mortified and I don't know what to do. I was really happy. He was the first guy that I've gone out with in a long time (I've been hurt a lot in the past and I decided to give up for a while). And now, I fall for this dirty trick and I just feel awful..
I was so happy with "him".
What should I do?
2006-07-03 17:25:25 · 22 answers · asked by Hilary B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Laugh about it. The guys who pulled the joke wish they were brave enough to ask someone out on their own, maybe even you.
But if you act hurt or embarrased, they win.
They have a lot of time on their hands and think they are clever and maybe they were. But cleverness applied to hurting someone else is not cool. So, be the better person for this. Don't blame yourself for thinking it was for real. Anyone else would have thought the same thing.
Someday the real one will happen and then you will be ready.
2006-07-03 17:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should been on myspace in the first place dont you know thats evil ppl have like died because of that stupied site thats just another way for old geezer dudes to hook up with young girls and like rape them and crap well you can really never be safe on the internet so i sugest you onley say yes to ppl the ask you out and you can asualy see them face to face and not on myspace
2006-07-03 17:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by funkychika22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay off of myspace - dont you read the papers or watch the news? Not safe!!!!!! You never know who you are really talking to.
Tell him that your myspace account was tampered with too and it wasnt really "you" who was talking to his stupid friends.
2006-07-03 17:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by mikowensmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about him. He did something so dirty to you that he isn't worth getting upset over. Just learn one thing though...never date a guy on the Internet. You never know who you are talking to and who they really are. They can make up all kinds of lies.
2006-07-03 17:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THere is only one thing you truly can do.
Invest in some kickboxing classes. After abouty a month find this lying waste of sperm and eggs and kick him in the groin. It is not the most mature thing to do, but you'll feel better.
2006-07-03 17:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a dirty trick....
Keep looking in the dating scene. There will be anguish, but also you may find that excitment and positive feeling again.
Have a chat about this....
Grow up.....a bit too dramatic....."mortified"....Please, it wasn't the guy you thought it was....
2006-07-03 17:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Laura Fletching 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, kiddo....get rid of your myspace. (Try "freewebs.") Learn from this experience, that on the web...TRUST NO ONE! If he asks you about it, play dumb and tell him YOU never had a myspace, so who did his friends ask out?
You will live thru this. Trust me. Someday you can tell your daughter about it! Peace.
2006-07-03 17:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by tiggyman41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find someone, and don't feel bad about this guy. what an awful thing to do to someone! don't give up, you can't count on the online crap, as you know now. relax and enjoy things yourself, you will meet someone to be happy with again!!!!
2006-07-03 17:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the guy if he knew about the " dirty trick" and if he did, forget him. guys are jerks! they will do anything to hurt a girl.
2006-07-03 17:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by James' Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE bold and straight away go to him and spit on his face and say
do not cheat any more fellow like me there is above god is to watch everything.
2006-07-03 18:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋