our bud from school is dating one of my friends and before my guy and i got together i was flirting with him on one occasion where he got me wet and then we talked for hours on the phone. i told this to my guy before we were together so now he trips out when the two of them are hanging out and he doesnt answer his phone i call his bud to get his attention and he goes nutz about it. how do i get it thru his mind, this guys only a friend now and that im inlove with just the one i fell inlove with.?
2006-07-03 17:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should sit him down and directly tell him the truth make sure that u are REALLY serious about this!
2006-07-03 17:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jayme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doubt can never be base for any kind of relationship....figure out a way! what is the guarantee that he will not doubt you after you probably get married to him, then its going to be living hell. i have personally seen couple going through horrible time just because they doubt each other.
love is not jealous, its patient, its kind and it covers all things. the Bible gives very specific attibutes and qualities of love, perhaps you should read it. (reference: 1 Corinthians 13:4 onwards)
2006-07-03 17:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Chief of sinners 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel.. this kinda happens w/ me. the phone thing, just forget about it. if u really want him to stop askin y u cal his friend, just dont call to get his attention, maybe he cant tlk, or doesnt want to. i kno that sounds mean but that might b true. he migh b lkin bout this b/c he likes another girl, and wants to turn ur attention away. but thats prbly not true. and tel him u dont like that guy, he shud believe u if u say u used to like him or flirt w/ him.if he doesnt believe u, then he might not trust u. wel i hope i helped.
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2006-07-03 17:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by ripneff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt just start ignoring his friend...maybe ask his friend that youll talk to him SOMETIMES, just that you won't act too friendly in front of your bf because youre on a slightly bumpy road right now. In any case, make your boyfriend feel special (if he doesnt already)...it could help...send him postcards spontaneously, notes between class saying that you love him...etcetc
2006-07-03 17:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him what flirting would be like..so he understands what not flirting is..but in the future dont let any important guy in your life know when someone else gets you horny..past or present, just better...unless you are swingers
2006-07-03 17:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by vincenzo445 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he's freaked...explain to him that you wouldn't flirt with a guy who is so beneath the one you got! tell him that you'd rather hear his voice than even LOOK at the other guy...make your boyfriend feel good!
2006-07-03 17:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Shalana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with your bf and the other guy so he can see for himself the truth
or arrange a date for you other friend with you and your bf for a double date!
2006-07-03 17:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by mara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God Bless you in your search in finding the truth as the truth will set you free.
2006-07-03 17:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't talk to him for 2 or 3 days let him come to you if he love,s you he well
2006-07-03 17:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! that's EXACTLY what's happening to me! Ask him/her out! Then your friend won't mind because he/she will know that you've liked him/her and that's why you've been "flirting" with them.
2006-07-03 17:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by @ |* ! @ n @ ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋