I wanna be more than friends with a friend but I dont wanna lose our friendship
2006-07-03 17:03:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just don't make such a bold move. It will usually back fire on you and they will go screaming for the hills. Just ask them out on a date, and take it from there. If they say "yes" to the date, then fine, go out and take it from there. It they don't say anything other than yes, the answer is "no". Don't keep pushing the conversation. Just take it as they are not interested. PS....if they are interested in you as more than a friend, very little effort will be necessary.
2006-07-03 17:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're feeling the way you are, you will never be able to keep it as just friends, knowing how you feel about him. Tell him! One out of three things will happen! 1. He will say yes, which is what you want, 2. He will say no, but want to stay friends, which at least you will know how he feels, and still have a friendship, or, 3. He will say no, and it could sever a friendship. This is the worst of the three, but, at least you will be able to allow yourself time to heal, and then develop an interest elsewhere. But, I really do not think the third one will happen.
Tell him! Love kept inside only causes hurt and depression. He needs to know how you feel about him, and you need to know how he feels about you. May God give you his wisdom and strength! My best to you!
2006-07-03 17:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you'd tell him, but just be aware if he's not interested in you that way it may mess up the friendship. Is it more important to you to have a "lover" or a friend?
2006-07-03 17:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friends(who are girls) just told me by telling me they're bi and they love me and all this stuff.. it was weird but cool i guess.. i guess the only way to do it is like tell them.. just say "i really like u and i have something important to tell u. i dont want to ruin our friendship over this because i love u so much as a friend... well maybe a little more than a freind... " and so on.. just kinda ease into it like that or something.. good luck doll
2006-07-03 17:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Juno. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just man up, or woman up or whatever and do it! Trust me you'll feel better, even if the results are not exactly what you were looking for. The anxiety will be gone and you'll have your answer, good or bad.
2006-07-03 17:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dose he seem like he would want to be more than friends? If yes i would just tell him, if No, i wouldn't, it would ruin your friend ship, and you would feel funny when around him..
2006-07-03 17:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by patti f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just tell that person that he/she has no obligations whatsoever with what you're about to say... so when he/she has the same feeling with you, then you can go out.. if not, then you can stay friends... and promise him/her that you won't act wierd..
2006-07-03 17:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should defintely watch http://www.justfriendsmovie.com HILARIOUS!! Thats how you tell a friend! LOL
2006-07-03 17:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them know. I did and it worked out great for me
2006-07-03 17:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kelé 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm..... ask him this:
promise this won't ruin our friendship?
if he says yes then tell him.
if he says no, don't tell him
2006-07-03 17:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋