i was brought up innocent, i never knew
anyways my bf keeps talkin about differents sex's viginal, oral, and others
the only one i know is doggie style
also how do u get over the embaressment do u go get drunk, and ahve it really lost
2006-07-03 16:55:57 · 29 answers · asked by gothicangelalways 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the one thing you don't do is get drunk!!! that will never solve anything in your life now or in the future. you don't do it if you feel embarrassed that is your mind telling you that you aren't ready yet, when you feel comfortable and its what YOU want then you think about it. but make sure you educate yourself about birth control and std's FIRST! its not lame, its good that you are asking and thinking before you do it, keep that up!
2006-07-03 16:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Hi, dear!
Ignornance is no excuse under any system! Unless you know, don't go for anything. Do the things which is confronted in your own way, fully understanding its pros and cons as you perceive, try to get acquainted with it in all its repurcussions and then formulate your frinal view or decision on accepting or declaining.
If you can view the issues in the manner as aforesaid, there will not a situation of embarassment. Drinking will not ease the situation but it will only deteriorate. Have a nice day!
2006-07-04 00:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get drunk!!! You'll probably serious regret what'll happen if your drunk. I have a few sips to relax me, but I'm an adult.
If you are to embarassed to do something, don't do it
Ignorance is not bliss in this situation.
I would tell you what you want to know, but I'm not sure what your ? is
I hope your guy is not trying to take advantage of your inexperience.
Get yourself a book of sexual positions, or look it up.
Don't give oral unless you really want to.
And don't give in to anal, you're not ready at all
Am I really helping? How old R U? Get educated or your a danger to yourself!
AND USE CONDOMS, THINK OF YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS
2006-07-04 00:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! Don't have sex until you are a grown and married woman. You're embarrassed because you shouldn't be getting naked with some guy just to relieve his sexual tension and desire!
Don't you think anything of yourself? A woman's sexuality is a beautiful thing in marriage, but it's cheap to give it away to bfs who aren't going to do anything but leave you and have sex with the next girl who will, sooner or later.
2006-07-04 00:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well "gothicangelalways", i dont think you are that in the dark on the topic so to speak. But should you be really lost then its a good thing new things are great, so just roll with the punches.
Jx
2006-07-04 00:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by jezzsta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way with my first boyfriend .this is the way i look at it its ok to be a lil embarresed it will take time to get over that but dont get drunk just to feel relax and good about having sex thats not cool just try and be relaxed sober and if time passes and you still feel werid with this guy then you shouldnt be havent sex with him .getting drunk and having sex comes after your not embaressed having sex sober
2006-07-04 00:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can actually find some stuff in the library that will teach you about sex. You don't have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Take it slow, don't let bf rush you. Do what feels right.
2006-07-04 00:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by boit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be emmbarresed, if you are emmbarresed about this type of stuff then it shows that you arn't ready. But yes that is one way to not know what u r doing and just get it over with. (being drunk)
2006-07-03 23:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by citie_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
vaginal is sex with the vagina...oral is when a girl sucks on a guys cock...and when a guy eats out a girl...and no honey if you think you need to get drunk to do any of these things then you are not ready to.
2006-07-03 23:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by sunshineissweeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was broght up the same way and you just have to get over the embarassment. Getting drunk isn't the answer.
2006-07-04 00:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋