He said she would have had to have a bag on her head to do it with her but now here she is the daughter of the bag head lady. Is my husband a horrible person?
2006-07-03 16:55:34 · 8 answers · asked by lindee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Face it, whwn sex is involved, men lie.
2006-07-03 16:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question of paternity is a serious one. Your husband may be a scared and confused person forced to face the consequences of his actions. A test is in order to establish paternity of the baby. If he is the father he needs to take responsiblity and he will be tied to the "bag head lady" for the rest of his life. The real question is what kind of person are you? Will you go throught this situation with your husband? Can you accept the fact that he had a child outside of your marriage? Can you help him raise his child? Can you be in contact with the child's mother on a civilized basis? The fact that you have asked this question and are wondering if your husband is a horrible person suggests that you may want to stay with him. You need to ask yourself if you can do that. If you can,
counseling is DEFINATELY in order for the both of you. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best and I pray wholeness and healing for your heart and soul.
2006-07-03 17:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. just a big ego and an ***...
men say things for their pride and ego when he may have a heart and he is afraid. he needs to be a man.
I think you should find someone who is more deserving of you because he did this to someone, he will do the same to you. he is selfish and has no real sense of right and wrong...morals are natural to some and taught to others..he has none.
you can not expect a zebra to act like a horse and a duck to act like a eagle if you know what I mean...
2006-07-03 16:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by CHERYL S3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lindee, sorry you've been hurt this way. All husbands are tempted to be selfish to this extreme, but few husbands actually go through with it. I know it hurts, and he was clearly wrong.
2006-07-03 17:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm...Not a horrible person......Just a liar unfortunately.....You need trust to have a complete relationship...If I were you I would leave him for a bit and see where that gets you....You don't deserve someone treating you like that........
2006-07-03 17:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a piece of crap...she deserved better and the child (if there is one) certainly does deserve better.
2006-07-03 16:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Outman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry for u, he just doesn't have any respect for ur marriage
2006-07-03 18:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP!!!
Do the same to him... cheat on him!!!
It'll make you feel better... Or better yet leave him... Coz once they cheat they never change! =)
2006-07-03 16:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by BuNsO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋