i love his personality we have so much in common and get along so well. i feel so bad though beacause i don't like his looks, his hair and things. i try to tell myself that its just a fake crush i have but the feels keep coming back. I also feel bad cause all my freinds think he is pyscho but a few since he has once been suicidal but he's over it and better, any advice?
2006-07-03 16:05:09 · 25 answers · asked by rose_cuti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also forgot to add something my mum i was talkin to yesterday said she didn't want me seeing a guy who was recently suicidal. at 15 this is the most torn ive ever felt, any advice on that?
2006-07-03 16:13:19 · update #1
NOT A BAD THING. Out of all those other little zip zappers you run around with who still think like little girls, YOU have made a great step to mature thinking. Why they will go for the "McDreamy" hunk and get humped and dumped more times then there are gum balls in a machine. Your chances of escaping that are far greater. You might just be what keeps him from ever wanting to end his life again. And not holding his past over his head is also another step to mature thinking. I applaud you *standing and cheering* To bad what you have we can not extract and put into the water so all those shallow young zip zappers can get some.
2006-07-03 21:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Screw good looks and your friends, YOU HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON so he is here to stay! You know how many relationships suck because the two partners have no common hobbies? And he has a great personaility, which every women should love. Yes, good looks are an advantage, but would you rather good looks and a divorce, or bad looks and an ideal marriage? If he has been through a suicidal attempt don't break up with him and make him more dpressed, for just being bad looking. That'll really make him die. And he's over his phsyconess, your friends are jelous (TRUST ME) because you have someone that has common interest with you!
Good luck!
;;}}
2006-07-03 16:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should spend more time with him.
That's great that you two get along, and your friends should not have any bearing as to who you choose to hangout with.
If the feelings are there, then you should explore them. Who care's if he has bad hair. That could be a fun thing to do together. Give him a makeover or go with him to get his hair cut. Just don't change his appearance because it may affect his attitude towards you...
Have fun with the feelings you are having!
2006-07-03 16:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Course not. I'm pretty much in the same situation. My crush isn't exactly attractive, but I just love his personality and the little things he does. In fact, I think I might like him even more than my other crush, who is absolutely gorgeous looking.
2006-07-03 16:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt like this before. Just take it slow, if you really like his personality and enjoy his company, you may develop an attraction to his appearance, or may grow to realise it doesn't bother you. But if you don't feel physically attracted to him after a while, there is absolutely nothing to stop you from having a great fulfilling friendship with him anyway.
2006-07-03 16:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by miss_behavin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOOKS DONT MATTER! It is what u feel in your heart. Looks dont get u anywhere in the world. So if you really like him then u shouldnt worry about what he looks like. Dont worry about what your friends say because they arent the ones dating him cause u are and im pretty sure that he only cares about what you think about him.
2006-07-03 16:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Aries Iz Me ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as you go along with you can suggest in a non invasive manner to pay attention to his looks...eg. hair and things. Otherwise as time goes by you will accept who he is as a person.
2006-07-03 16:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by ob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your friends if they don't know him. It's ok that you don't like his looks but you love his personality. I have that situation with a friend of mine. What you got to ask yourself is can you be with him even though you don't like his looks? It's alright if you can't. I can't either.
2006-07-03 16:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by PB&J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There needs to be some sort of an attraction. If there is none the relationship wont last.
2006-07-03 16:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your friend not theirs,besides it's not a person looks that counts it's the heart,there's no one perfect,and only one who judges,so follow your heart and mind.
2006-07-03 16:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by tubleweed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋