I have a guy friend that I have been seeing on and off for 5 years,
we have a lot of together and I don't want it to end right now, he doesn't want a girlfriend and hates when I mention another man, he is so nonchalant that i don't know if he loves me, help me out does he?
2006-07-03 15:55:05 · 14 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date someone else and see what his reaction is.....or better yet, mention that you are tired of not having a commitment in so long and are thinking of seeing another guy.....Hopefully his true feelings will come to the surface then...Good Luck, girlfriend!!!!!
2006-07-03 15:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too.
He can't have it both ways. Either he wants you or he doesn't.
Sounds like you two really need to set down and have a good heart to heart talk. You could ask him the same thing you're asking us, if he's in love with you. Main thing is, communication.
2006-07-03 16:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy loves you he won't shut up about it. He wants to be single and still sleep with you. That simple. After five years come on your smater then that.
2006-07-03 16:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation he loves you he doesn't realize it yet but whatever you do dont presure him into a relationship it will chase him off it will happien just be patient.
2006-07-03 16:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not in love with you . Bec if he does He will win you right away and will show you his intentions. Move on.
But do you think he is worth waiting? Its up to you.
2006-07-03 16:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by ob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should show him how you feel. Then observe how he acts when you show him how you feel. But it's hard to tell becuase some guys give mix signals.
2006-07-03 15:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by It's my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Five years is too long to wait. IMHO, if you don't after a year, do both of you a favor....
2006-07-03 15:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a couple and no-one else is involved, just leave it at that, love will come when it wants, not when you want it to
2006-07-03 16:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to tell him how you fell and ask him yourself. it's the only way to know for sure.
2006-07-03 16:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not love you yet, but he sure as hell does like u give him a little more time, sum ppl start to seriously start loving each other after they get together and stay together
thats wat happened to me, i like my bf, he liked me, and after a month of dating it was pure love
u can sense
2006-07-03 15:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋