Why don't women appreciate sex as much as men do? Live it up baby!?

Question

I mean I don't know about you but I wanna have as much sex as I can while I can.

Just be safe when you do it. Girls should loosen up and stop trading them for love.

I mean girls would always say "You have to love me very much in order for me to do it with you." C'mon you know I can't always promise that I'mma love one woman forever.

Thanks for your anwsers folks. So many great ones.

Answer 1

Sorry, But Love is one of the things us girls look for in life. Alot of men do too.Love makes it all worth while knowing this person you are being with is loving you the same way. It's not just SEX, It's love making.


And, I for one, Want to loosen up with the right person. Someone who will care about me emotionally, physically and mentally during sex. Most of the woman I know have sex when they feel connected to someone, And to me Sex has alot to do with that. You feel "connected" enough to share something as personal as sex with another person. Sure--I want to have sex too before I am unable to do it, but I want them to be something I can remember, not a one night stand.

I guess you can say at since alot of woman wait for those moments, We appreciate more than men. We take into consideration who were have intercourse with, That relationship with the person and how it's going to effect that relationship afterwards. Those woman who have "loosen" up have their own reasons, and I'm sure if you wanna know---You could ask them or they could show you themselves.

Answer 2

It all depends on the woman, I think people make too many stereotypes when it comes to who likes sex and who doesn't. I myself am very sexual. I actually want it more than my fiance. People say "women just want the emotional connection, not the sex" LMAO MAYBE some women do. Sure the sex is 10488535 times better if you have an emotional bond, but I dont want to do the whole 80s jazz, candles lit, slowly undress and then spend 10 hours on foreplay like many people think women do want. I cant even get off like that. Maybe I am just one of few, but I have never met a guy that wanted to have sex (and could have sex) more often that I do.

Sorry I had to add this, I read the post where the girl said "we have a clitoris that needs stimulations and penis in right away doesnt cut it" Every womans body is built differently. I have gotten off to oral sex only a handful of times, I cant even last for 10 mins with recieving it before I pull him up. Speak for yourself girl. Maybe you cant handle the heat (penis)

and no im not a sk*nk either. I have only been with one person and I am engaged to be married to him in less than a month.

Answer 3

You are speaking very unrealistically. There are some people both men and women that share that point of view already. This is sad cause sex is about bonding,procreation and the pleasure of being with someone for love and to be loved and respected. There are millions of children born to people that do not deserve them a problem that you would think modern societies would purge and have tried too for years by insisting on marriage, following religous doctirines and such other methods but the real answer is people really do need to appreciate sex and not only just for sheer pleasure and cause they can have sex.

Answer 4

Where have you been? Men do not appreciate sex. they may enjoy it slightly more because they can get aroused from zero to woody in 2 whiffs of perfume. But simple arousal and enjoyment does not constitute appreciateion. to appreciat something you have to see it as special and not a mere commodity.

Women, in spite of what they say, love the booty call just as much as men. But because society do not allow them to just sow their wild oats and get freaky without being w***ish, they go into the delusion that they love the guy so that it seem less like a booty call and more like a relationship. So, with men and women it is the same, the mode to getting there is just different.

Answer 5

First of all, boys have the sex drive they do thanks to testosterone. Women's bodies do make a little of it or they wouldn't have any sex drive at all, but it's not made as much as it is for a man.

Also, women and men think very differently thanks to the brain being made different from each other. So, women think more emotionally than men. That's why a good portion of men seem like insensitive pricks to us once they've had their way. Men usually get suddenly inpersonal and unemotional. Women expect different.

Try reading the book "men are from mars, women from venus" It's interesting why we think so differently.

Answer 6

Although things have changed quite a bit, we still have sequels of conservative mentality which used to dominate society until the 60's.
Women at that time were not officialy entitled to have sexual enjoyment, they were meant to pleasure the omnipotent man and to carry his progeniture.
Society used to be in total denial of the fact that women too can have orgasms, and those who had orgasms and therefore enjoyed sex were qualified "nymphomaniacs" which is a synonymous of "Hysteric" (the etymology of hysteric is something like "a person who is lead by her uterus", hysteria is associated to female gender).
Even in the early 70's with the deepthroat movie controversy, some influent conservative US politicians stated that sexual pleasure due to clitoris stimulation was unappropriate, only vaginal pleasure was acceptable because it is linked to the reproduction.
As I stated in the beginning, things have, fortunately, changed a lot but, still, we bear unconscious sequels of those outdated considerations and girls are raised with them so they are somehow conditionned to consider sex as dirty and to feel more or less guilty in living up their sexual drive.

Answer 7

Some women do appreciate sex as much as men. But for me it is the quality in the quantity! It is way better to have great sex than mediocre sex.

Answer 8

I believe that men are not as sensitive to a woman's needs, therefore they do not give enough of themselves to satisfy a woman completely, therefore woman don't always enjoy it as much as men. On the other hand, if a woman is with a man who really knows how to give, them sex for them will be immensely pleasurable.
thanks

Answer 9

I think they value sex just as much as men...maybe even more, but it's like they're apart of some secret women's club and it's forbidden for them to admit it...but the victoria's secret is no longer a secret when that's the main reason they break up with you lol or don't want to date you

Answer 10

Sex is more of an emotional thing for us, when for men it's much more of a physical! I mean yes it can feel great and be the best time ever, but we tend to then get attached. :)