i always tell her that it bugs me but she gets all crazy on me and starts yelling or keeps on asking me tons of questions that have no meaning!! HELP ME!
also when ever im on the computer she always stands right behind meee!! i neeed space but she wont get the hint!
2006-07-03 15:36:45 · 11 answers · asked by get crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Since she pays the bills, she can do what she wants. You'll just have to put up with it.
2006-07-03 15:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kikyo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one your mother loves you and maybe just a bit over protective. For another ask yourself have given your mother a reason to not trust you. The best thing to do is approach your mother when she is in a good mood and say you really need to talk to her. Sit and talk with your mother about the situation she will listen. Then you guys try to work out a comprimise about this situation. With all the crazy stuff that is going on in this world internet predators and all she has a right to be protective of you. If something were to happen to you then she would feel at fault for the situation and feel she has failed as a mother. So don't think she is tryin to ruin your fun it all boils down to she loves you and does not want anything awful to happen. Just try to comprimise with her like suggested I believe it will work tell her how you feel about it but also listen to her feelings then try to reach a compromise. Hope this helps. Good Luck
2006-07-03 15:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kasey R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom is over protective on you!!! she afraid that you will be trap in the wrong friends or involve in all the bad things, she just want to make sure and wanna know with whom you are being friends or what are you doing. This is make us very disturbed and inconvenienced by her acts and irritate our as personal..
Com'on discuss with her, try to be open that you feel very inconvenience, ask her to give you space and make her sure and understand that you will not do anything that will harm you or anything bads, nothing to worry about. BTW tell her that over protective is not always have good result, sometimes even make it worst....the children will do something worse than their parent's need to worry about as their compensation for their freedom this long.
Maybe after she ensure her self will make her understand and start to give you a trust to act freely.
Good Luck
2006-07-03 15:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that you need privacy. don't yell it at her just clmly when she's looking over your sholder, turn around and say, "mom could you please not read over my sholder?" if she ask why tell her that you need space
when your on the phone say,"hold on" to the person on the other end and look at your mom tell her that you and your friend are talking about sex and that if she would like to listen to you conversation why dosen't she just go in to the other room pick up THAT phone and listen to both sides of the conversation. Turn back to the phone turn around and say, "sorry, anyway....ect."
Good luck!!
2006-07-03 15:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason she does not trust you. why dont you try answering some of those questions and showing her where you go online. or if you have some thing to hide then it is good that your mom is doing this.
2006-07-03 16:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister does the same thing, she is eavesdropping on me. She always wants to know what I am doing. It bugs me to. But, i just keep my cool. Lock her out of your room. Tell her to please stop it. And mind her own business.
2006-07-03 15:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by tffny_cheng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom does the same thing yea it gets annoying but i told her straight out mom lsiten it bugs me u do tht & if u want 2 kno something then ask b.c i feel lik you dont trust me & it gets 2 her tht i should just trust her & ask
2006-07-03 15:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by here 2 help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that moms can be Overprotective, but they're not going to change. What you can try doign though is Talking to her. Try to make her see what she can't.
2006-07-03 15:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by PB&J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell her you would like some privacy. My guess is she doesn't trust you, you need to build it up to get her away.
2006-07-03 15:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom does the same thing!
its drives me crazy to...
flat out tell her it bugs you
2006-07-03 15:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by boydbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋