I work with this guy who is (to me) very cute. I like just about everything about him and would love to go out with him.
He always makes me laugh. He sings songs (off-key) when I'm around, compliments my hair, shoes, glasses, etc. He makes comments about how I'm dressed, like- "Don't YOU look all summery today." He shows me his injuries and even lets me touch them.
I would say that he likes me too but he has NEVER made any effort to spend time with me. He knows where my office is, but hasn't come to visit. He has my phone number, but has never called me. He's on my forwarding list for funny e-mails, but he's never sent a reply.
I think his coworkers tease him about me, but I can't tell why.
Does he like me or not?
I'm very confused. Since we work together, I don't want to compromise anything by pushing for an answer but I REALLY want to know.
Should I just ask him?
2006-07-03 15:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by no_idiots_please 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he definitely likes you a lot. But maybe there's reasons he doesn't do the above you've mentioned. Maybe he doesn't like to date someone at work. A lot of people don't. Because that can cause a lot of issues if it doesn't work out. You might want to think this through also. Get a feel for this, if he would date someone he works with. If you find out yes, just give him a little more time. Flirt with him back when he flirts with you. And if nothing progresses. Maybe since you guys seem to be kinda friends, you could just ask him if he wants to hang out sometimes. Other people could even be in this scenario, so you guys aren't alone. But then you can get some alone time and see what happens. Things are always different outside of work. And if he's that into you when he sees you at work you can only imagine how he'll be outside. Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-03 15:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 18⤊ 2⤋
He is not into you. Dating people at work is a bad idea. Guys aren't complicated. If he wanted you ;you would know. He might just like you but just not that way. Or maybe you are a little chubby and your glasses and shoes are the only thing he can complement.
2006-07-03 22:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but the only way to know is to ask. I asked my crush at work and I was wrong. Then I lost everything that I liked about him. But hey it doesn't always happen that way.
2006-07-03 22:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by blondieinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is diggin you girl, any guy that shows off his scars is looking for some thing lol thats for sure... make the move and ask him to hang out or start slow ask if he has myspace so you can chat get him number, just ask him out!!
2006-07-03 22:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by starjessiegirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably does. ask him out on a date or just a time to hang out instead of at work. see what happens
2006-07-03 22:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you just ask him already and get it over and done with.Life is too short to be wasting time playing games.That is wasted time that could be spent on Mr.Right.
2006-07-03 22:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by GHOST 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start by giving small hints.if you've dropped a whole lot of hints and he still doesn't seem to notice them,you'll have no choice but to ask him straight out.But there's one point you have to notice.you musn't ask him in front of his friends.
2006-07-03 22:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by wingyan. (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat around the bush till he basicly blurts it out if you don't want 2 just get up in his face and ask.
2006-07-03 22:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by JessicaW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too be honest u should ask this man, if he is really feeling u go for it, if not at least u will know and u won't be wondering.
2006-07-03 22:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to hang out with u sometime..and go from there
2006-07-03 22:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋