One that's sweet,romantic, gorgeous, has his own opinions, and doesn't think about think about sex nonstop. How do you find a guy like that? I thought he sould be so easy to find, but its hard amid all the perverts that are good actors at first, til their true intentions come out. Am I, for lack of a better word, naive in hoping to find a guy like this?
2006-07-03 15:18:43 · 26 answers · asked by ♥HF♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a perfect desciption of my boyfriend, except for the sex part. He says he thinks about sex constantly, but I don't even believe him because he doesn't act like it at all. He is a gentleman in that sense, I guess.
Don't give up on love...
2006-07-04 12:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Brackalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have, I'm not w him yet though. I'm not sure, I lost the only decent guy there is grrr. I think it's my fault. I mean at first it wasn't, but then I pushed. I felt bad, and now I am going to feel bad or worse if it was my fault, and if nothing happens. It is so rare! I'm sorry. That was a mistake to think it would be easy. U don't find them. They are just there, when u least expect it. Odds are against it, but one day u might. I'm guessing ur young. I was lucky or unlucky o have found him early on. Course he could have grown up a perv. I doubt it though. I hope not. I think perfect guy for you, not a perfect guy. Ur a teen in hs I bet so u got a lot of years yet, and even then. Gorgeous? I don't use that word, I use cute. He's cute to me. But it's not what's important. I don't care for the opinion thing, and don't most guys already do? That's what makes em assholes.
2006-07-03 15:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly i'd be a little worried if i found a guy who was "perfect". To be honest, little quirks here and there, are what brings two people closer and teaches you about yourself. However, more quirks than happy moments=unhappy couple. All i could say is i hope you find a guy you could be yourself with, someone who will ALLOW you to be yourself, and makes you more happy than not.
About the sex thing, i highly doubt there's much guys out there who don't take a liking to sex and everything about it. the key thing you hafta keep in mind though, is that if sex isn't available to the guys you're talking to, yes, it might drive some away, but that's good for you because it eliminates all the guys that weren't really into YOU anyway. Its the ones that stick around even if there's no sex involved, that are the ones worth your time.
THe best of luck with this.
=)
-maritza
2006-07-03 15:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by ScorpioSting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong it is very hard to find a guy that is perfect. I don't really think the perfect guy exists. In every guy or girl there are always flaws that you don't always like. How you handle them make it perfect or not. Now when the good things over power the flaws then you have found the perfect guy for you. Doesn't mean he's the perfect guy because everybody is different with different tastes.
2006-07-03 15:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepiesmiles15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's life, that' s just the way it is. I mean no one is perfect, i'm not trying to be rude but i bet ur not perfect either. Right? or am I wrong? neways u can't always expect everything to be exactly the way you want it to be, that just wouldn't be life. if everything were perfect in life, life would be so boring. yes love is pain, but it's like they say it's better to have loved then not loved at all !!! so jus be patient and i bet you will find the right guy, and you will see that he is perfect, but in a different way. what i mean by that is he will be perfect in your eyes, in your own way, and that's alll that really matters! Good luck!!!
2006-07-03 15:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took many years and lots of losers, but I finally found my perfect man. I thought I wanted to be with him the first time we spoke, but waited a year because of all the stuff I went through with other guys. Knowing him for a year, I know that I've seen him at his best and worst, and I can deal with both. "Perfect" is in your mind and only you can decide what you can handle and what you can't . Nobody's perfect, but you deserve love, understanding, trust and passion.
2006-07-03 15:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by TURF_MECANICA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine is pretty close to perfect ( since remember - no one is). But he is amazing. Sweet, gorgeous, kind, very smart and not all about sex like the rest of the male species. I found him quite accidentally when I wasnt looking. Keep waiting girl - you will find one, they DO exist. I found out for myself... you will too =)
2006-07-03 15:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are alot of good men out there. But dont think they will be gourgous and have alot of money. They are actually out there looking for you. But they are also looking fora friend. Not just a lover. They are going to come with a lot of inside problems and secrets and are going to need someone to talk to them and comfort them. And let them know that you are there for them. So yes there are good men out there. And I should know, I have one!
2006-07-03 15:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by Neec M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL!!! I endured many horrible relationships and the one i thought was 'the one' for me lead me to the one man that really is the man for me, we married recently and i seriously believe that in this life you have to kiss a lot of frogs but you have to keep trying to get what youy want, DONT give up, Keep kissing frogs !!!!
2006-07-03 15:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you're not naive. the "perfect" person is always hard to find. but, i mean, there's always a bump in the road, right? and also, there is no "perfect" person. in reality, there is no perfect. but in your mind, there is perfect. but only in your mind. all you need to do is just wait. somebody will come along eventually. hope i helped.
2006-07-03 15:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋