2006-07-03 15:16:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you have answered your own question.
They hurt the most because you love them the most.
If you didn't love and care for them then it wouldn't hurt so much.
2006-07-03 17:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by tjrj23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These people hurt us the most because we are most vulnerable towards them. We give them everything we have including our trust and our hearts. Whenever you are that close to someone of course you will get hurt more than you would by someone else. Love is well worth the risk though.
2006-07-03 22:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about it. If your boyfriend came up to you and said" You have the ugliest nose I have ever seen" it would hurt you more than if a total stranger said it. When we open our hearts to others and allow them to get close to us that is the chance you take of getting hurt. But that's not to say never let any one get close to you. Because then you would be very lonely, and miss the chance to find alot of great love and friendship.
2006-07-03 22:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by mitzi o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didnt love and care for them, they could not hurt you! That is why it always hurts the worst and the most!
2006-07-03 22:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they assume you will always forgive them. Hence the saying Blood is thicker than water. It's sad but true. I don't know why
2006-07-03 22:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we value what they think and say which makes it harder for us. Plus we see them more then we see people we hate. Sucks doesn't it how it's always the one you love unconditionally who breaks your heart...yet you still love em with every broken piece
2006-07-03 22:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lahmsdagr8est! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know because they are closer they know how to hurt you the worst. They probably don't mean it anger makes people do stupid things.
2006-07-03 22:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES YOU AL OW TO GET CLOSE ENOUGH TO HURT YOU LIKE THAT.YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT PEOPLE ARE GOING TO DO.YOU CAN'T APOLOGIZE FOR THEM YOU CAN'T CHANGE THEM.YOU CAN'T STOP THEM FROM DISAPPOINTING YOU.YOU JUST LOVE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE AND DO NT EXPECT THEM TO CHANGE.
IF YOU DO NT WANT TO GET HURT DO NT LET THEM TO CLOSE.IF YOU DO NT WANT TO HAVE TO COLLECT A DEBT DONT LOAN ANY MONEY.ONLY GIVE THEM WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO G I V E THEM.AND DONT EXPECT THEM TO PAY IT BACK.
2006-07-03 22:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by susan w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because maybe they don't know how much you care or maybe they have issues to deal with and that is their way of handling things
2006-07-03 22:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by ja man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause they love you so much there love goes in the words
2006-07-03 22:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by PAULO G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋