Why is it that older men are attracted to me?

Question

I was sitting with my friend on a bench outside of the theater she had just preformed at and it was emptying. While guys were walking past i saw that all the guys our age (19-20) were checking out her and all the men (30-60) were checking out me! Why? we look the same! why are older men attracted to me? I am a little thinner but we look pretty much similar! please help me figure this out!

Answer 1

There are other factors to consider, however, it could be your own perception that older men where checking you out.

It could be similar to when you get a new car, or a rental car, and you notice there are more cars like yours on the road, when previously, you would not have noticed it.

Are you attracted to older men or do they freak you out??

Answer 2

it could be anything though. maybe not the thin part but i am a big gurl and i get older guys all the time and the other reason why they would be checking you out is if you are more mature than your friend at your age. thats a huge turn on for older men. & the other thing is that, they wouldnt mind being seen with a young hot sexy female hanging on their arms and they (the older men) would be making the younger men jealous b/c either the older men can work their s**t or they are hung like horses. Plus you might wanna try older men but NOT too old just for the fact that they are better in bed and know the motion of the ocean and usually DONT wanna get their nuts off.

Answer 3

Think about it like this:

When you were a little girl ( 7 or 8) you like certain things, as you grew older from experience your appreciation changed your perspective.

Pizza is a good example, as a kid it did not matter where it came from it all tasted good. Now though you can tell the difference between Frozen Pizza, the Pizza Huts and Papa Johns and the local Pizza Joint where you stay.

It is the same concept with men as they appreciate the physical beauty of a woman. As they mature they are attracted to different aspects than when they were a boy. Sometimes, it is not necessarily the physical body, but the presence that you have.

Answer 4

how can anyone help with such limited information. but to just state no one really knows what attracts one person to another. and i am sure your seeing more into this then is really going on. The mind can play tricks on you and perhaps you find older guys as bad people and if one even looks your way you think they are all attracted to you. or perhaps it is the other way around and you were attracted to a guy your age and he turned you down and now you mind see's guys your age rejecting you. that is the only way to explain by the information you gave and you and your friend pretty much match in looks then the only other possible thing has to be all in your mind.

Answer 5

I just read your profile and my guess is that perhaps you carry an air of grace, maturity, and experience in your youthful looks from a 60 y.o's perspective. Younger guys may not admire this as much as the older man.

Answer 6

Men are men they are all the same no matter what age, some are better at hiding it. I am guessing here, but you could look older than your friend, and you carry yourself differently. Meaning that you behave as if you are older than what you are.

Answer 7

Older guys see things in women that boys don't. Details like curves,smiles eyes, hair,walk.It's hard to explain but it is a good thing.

Answer 8

You might be putting up a more sober face! In our dreams, we like bubbly things.. thinner? so much the better....... and we know are fun to handle.

Answer 9

I guess you are just too attractive baby doll.

Answer 10

Because you make them feel YOUNG again,
You have that SPECIAL SPARKLE