2006-07-03 14:43:20 · 15 answers · asked by mondey93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm a guy, but maybe my experiences could help you. I've been in 4 relationships before, and they turned out to nothing.
But each time it happened to be that way, I just make sure that I am not alone. Get some friends, hang out with them. Not necessarily you have to go for a movie or something. Share some laughs, make a joke or two. Remember, you are young, you should be laughing hard. :-).
I know its hard, I mean really hard to not think of your ex. For me, the thought that she is or will be, or in love with someone else just hurts me so much. Sometimes I can't even go to sleep well. Call it stupid romance if you want, its just sometimes in life, no matter how we are trying to voice up our heart, other people will find it rather a normal story, but not to us. We'll start feeling that they don't understand cause they couldn't feel what we feel.
But trust me, hanging around with friends, does help you. Listening to your favourite songs also helps. I think other people here have suggested a lot of things to do.
But since you're asking, for me, the most important thing for you to do, after you feel better, is for you to think it over, why did the relationship doesn't stay long? It have to be something, and you will find some of his fault. I'm telling you, look for your own fault, and admit it to yourself. This will not bring your ex back, but it will help you to do something better.
It will teach you how to improve yourself, so next time, when you get a new boyfriend, you will not repeat the same mistakes, if any. You will give your best for him, and if you found someone you really deserve, and he deserves you, he will appriciate you, trust me. I am a guy, but I'm not shame to tell you that they are thousands of guys out there who will just take you for granted. Only a few are willing and sincere to be your guardian, your lover, the one who support you in every minute in your life, that will sacrifice anything he has just to see you smile. Now that's not a guy, he's a man. :-).
As for your ex, do not try to forget him, because you won't. I still remember the first love I had, and I still love her, but I've accepted the fact that we weren't meant to be together. The important thing is, you have to turn this pain into something for you to learn, and if you learn it the hard way, then you will be a better person, and you will get a better lover. I guarantee that. :-).
Look at me now. I didn't see all those failure in the past as signs that I'm not a good person, but I took those opportunities to learn, expecially from the mistakes I've done. Now I've found my true love. She will do anything for me, as I would do anything for her. Of course I've done some mistakes against her, and she againts me, but when you meet someone who really accepts you for who you are, then whatever happens, you will overcome it, and there is no problem in this world that can surpress your love, or his love for you.
Trust me, I know.
Good luck then, hope that will help. :-).
2006-07-03 15:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really nothing thats going to make you feel better right now.it takes time.in a couple of weeks you will start feeling better.but in the mean time just cry.scream.let it out.get rid of all the things that remind you of him.i am telling you time is amazing in healing a broken heart .
2006-07-03 14:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girls night out (club)
No love songs, pictures, or anything involving your ex.
Going out with love ones, anyone that would make you feel at ease with what you are going through.
Or best of all lean on a handsome nice guy that would make you smile
2006-07-03 14:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by shashauhhhgalore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gather your friends and go out for a movie and some ice cream...eat some chocolate too...it has chemicals that naturally make you feel happy...
2006-07-03 14:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friends and have a good time. Make yourself all pretty and sexy and go have fun with your friends, doesn't matter whether it is just a movie or going to a club, go have fun and forget.
2006-07-03 14:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by wouldn't-u-like-to-know ;] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A new boyfriend. And Ice Cream.
2006-07-03 14:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out and having fun?
2006-07-03 14:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a few fresh guys.
2006-07-03 14:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, good friends, chocolate, icecream and a good cry.
2006-07-03 14:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up a new hobby, get your mind off him.
2006-07-03 14:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋