Still having feelings for your Ex!!!!?

Question

I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS BOY I REALLY LOVE AND CARE ABOUT,BUT I STILL BE THINKING ABOUT MY EX AND HIS NEW GIRL,I'M JEALOUSE CAUSE HE'S WITH HER AND NOT ME HE DUMPED ME FOR HER BUT WAS STILL CALLLING ME TO COME OVER AND SAYING HE LOVES ALL THE TIME BUT AFTER A WHILE HE JUST STOPPED CALLING AND 5 MTHS LATER HE CALLED ME TO COME OVER HIS HOUSE I DID ALL HE SAID HE LOVES ME BUT HER PICTURES WAS ALL UP IN HIS ROOM AND HER CLOTHES I WAS SO JEALOUS AND MAD,HOW DO I GE OVER HIM AND STOPP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT HE'S DOING ALL THE TIME

Answer 1

Here's a great reason to stop worrying about his life...

If you don't, you are going to be single so fast you wont know what hit you.

Who care's if he say's he still loves you and cares about you and all of that, he is lying because he wants the best of both worlds.. And so far, you are falling for it....

Stop taking his calls, and listening to what he is saying... Of course you are going to feel jealous cause there is a new girl in his life that isn't you, but that's when you realize that you are with someone who cares about you and actually wants to be with you!

Answer 2

You want the hard truth? You are only hooked on him because of how he makes YOU feel. That's not love girl. That's infatuation. you better evaluate if it's the same thing with this new guy, because if it is this one's highly likely to go the same way. Your new boyfriend is watching what's happening with your old boyfriend. And if you let your old boyfriend get away with this crap, your new boyfriend will do one of two things. If he is smart, he will run like hell. If he is a scumbag like your old boyfriend he will DEFINATELY pull the same b-ll-sh-t on you the first one did. Either way, you lose. You need to find a whole lot more R-E-S-P-E-C-T for yourself or you will never find true love.

You need to look this guy (your old boyfriend) straight in the eye, and (even if it tears you up and you are brought to tears doing it) say "get the [blank] away from me and never come near me again"! It would help matters if your new boyfriend could witness it (as long as it your sure it won't lead to a fight) because he will either respect you for it or (if he is a scumbag at heart) he will head for the hills! If he does, hold your head up high, step proud and know that you didn't take any sh-t from either of them. There are better men out there don't you DARE settle for pond scum!!!

If your new boyfriend is worth sticking around for he will support you and be there waiting.

Answer 3

first, stop answering his calls. ur doing just what he wants u to do. he expects that when he's not doing well with his girlfriend that he can come back to u whenever he likes. don't allow him to do this. u still have feelings for him and would probably do anything he says. that's why he calls and wants u to come by. u have to let him know that u have moved on and mean what ur saying, it may be hard, but if he sees what ur really saying;he will realize that he didn't have u "wrapped around his finger" as he thought he did.

Answer 4

Why would you want to go back to this cheating dog?! Forget about him!