i like him a lot, he promised he would send a message 2 days ago 'cos we were supposed to go out, and that day i called him like 5 times and every time i called his friend told me that he was taking a shower... and i told him "you told me that 3 hours ago" and he said "well, yeah! he's taking another shower"... i was really upset, and i still am, but should i call to ask him about what really happened that day?
2006-07-03 14:20:52 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was upset because he really seemed to be interested in me...
2006-07-03 14:28:56 · update #1
i was upset because he really seemed to be interested in me...
2006-07-03 14:28:57 · update #2
Honey get the hint....he is just not into you!
2006-07-03 14:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by cloud9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a really good position right now as the woman in a possible relationship. If he's interested, he will call; if he's not, he won't. NEVER EVER call a guy that many times. Dating is about the thrill of the chase. If he's really interested, he'll give chase; if the prey comes to him, he will most likely be turned off in the long run, and lose interest.
2006-07-03 14:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! do not call him. you have already called enough! if he really wants to talk to you and tell you what happened or why he never sent the messege then he will. the best thing to do is act like you dont have interest in him. when you push to much he will pull away! that is alot of men and women too. stop calling him and if he really likes you he will begin to miss you and realize he wants you. give him that space. dont drown him. but if he never acts on it then forget about him. it will make it eaiser to move on anyways. plus there are alot more choices for you to choose from in this world anyways.
2006-07-03 14:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by mandy l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets say you call him and he finally takes the call. this only means that he's playing a head game with you. women do this too. he is just trying to put you in the place of the one who is less and lucky to have him. If you want to base your life around this guy just to stroke his ego then call him again. that way he can feel he's the man weather he takes you call or not. your best bet is to not call him and then treat him bad back for what he did if he comes around. or what i would recommend because i personally hate those games is forget him. if he does come around simple tell him you're not into those games and will not put up with it if you decide to give him a second chance. what ever you decide just don't call him, and then make the decision if should come around.
2006-07-03 14:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by cesar g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games. He's indirectly saying he broke up with you. Stop calling him. Each time you call it's telling him and his friends you are "sweating" him. Get a life. Cut him loose. Don't bother to try to get an explanation out of him. He's a loser. He doesn't have the b*lls to tell you he's playing you, and wants to pose that he's hardcore with the females, if you get my drift. In other words, he's an immature dork who needs the approval of his friends and to show his supposed "manhood" by stringing along girls emotions. Passive aggressive nonsense.
Dump him, don't look back, change your number and don't give out the new one to anyone. You deserve better, believe me.
2006-07-03 14:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound very promising. I know it's easy for me to say this, because I have nothing invested with this young man, as you do. Obviously he was not taking showers all day long. I think he has been very rude to you and if I were you friend, I would advise you to move on. There's an old saying: "Good riddance to poor trash." He was not honest,kind or strong enough to speak to you, himself. Please move on, dear. You deserve better.
2006-07-03 14:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him. But truly what I think that he was trying to avoid you, he broke a promised he didn't call you back. He should of call a day a head if he had something to do and try to replan it your date. I can't believe he used his to make up an excuse to not talk with you. I hate that very much, you deserved better than him.
2006-07-03 14:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Berties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... I wouldn't call him! Let him wonder for awhile.
I do believe that if he has any interest in you he will call when he finds out you've called, IF he knows you called (The friend might not have passed on the message)
Unless that's his way of telling you he doesn't want to see you, but doesn't have the nerve to tell you that!
2006-07-03 14:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay do not call him cause that's why he is avoiding you not every man likes to be chased but he sounds like one that is toying with you. i would make it a point not to call him because after all the calling you have done it will make him call you just out of curiosity as to why you are not calling . and if he was just using you he wont call and you will hurt awhile but will be better off without him. good luck hun.
2006-07-03 14:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Wendi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, drop him, he has a cleanliness fetish; you'll be cleaning the house while he's taking a shower. If his friends cover for him just remember, "You can judge a person by their friends." This guy's a dirty liar; as are his friends. Now, go on with your life.
2006-07-03 14:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mike's Mission Machines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your persistent calling may have scared him off.
It's good for a girl to come on strong, but some guys get scared of it.
Personally, I would wait till he calls you. If he really likes you then he will call. If he doesn't, then it's time to move on to someone who does.
Stop calling him. Sooner or later he is going to think you are desperate...
2006-07-03 14:23:26 · answer #11 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋