He is my high school sweetheart. We haven't been together since 1998 & we just hooked up again in May. He is more over-bearing & controlling than he was then. I love him so much and would hate to see myself without him. But I'm so miserable and stressed out behind him and some other things that my heart wants him but my mind doesn't.Part of me wants to go back to my old ways & have my friends with great big benefits. But the other is ready to settle down and grow old with someone that loves my children and me. I have four children & my first is by him.I threatened to leave but he won't go. He says he's not going that easily. We are to marry on June 2, 2007. Tell me, what can or should I do?
2006-07-03 14:20:13 · 6 answers · asked by SoUnique06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try to gain 100 pounds and see if he still like you.
2006-07-10 14:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's overbearing,& controlling now, it just will get worse with time,cause then, he'll think he owns all of you's.!Not only that, but it's a pre- symtom for any tye of Abuse, so you might want to jet! No good love, is worth Abuse in any form. Remember that always!
2006-07-03 21:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even considering marrying a man who doesn't make you happy? Leave him. You deserve better.
2006-07-03 21:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even think about it! leave him. you can get over him and find someone better but you cant get over being unhappy if you stay with him. think about yourself and your life.
2006-07-03 21:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by mandy l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
if he doesn't understand
then u deserve better
2006-07-03 21:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you wait, the harder it will be.
2006-07-03 21:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by anonglass62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋