i recently got in a fight with my mom and it was over me not being able 2 get a hold of her in time for me 2 tell her where i was goen so shee was worried and wen she came and picked me up from were i was frum she got physical with me..she ended up kicking me out and so now im staying with family....and even tho she kicked me out she has me on restriction here?! wat do i do?!?!?!....
2006-07-03 14:18:53 · 27 answers · asked by panchos_grl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like you and your mom are not communicating well right now. It might be time for some professionals to help you two straighten things out.
You could call your local crisis line or go to any of the following websites. Even though you're not a runaway, they'll help you find solutions:
http://www.youthcrisisnetwork.org/HRRYP.htm
http://www.covenanthouse.org/nineline/
http://www.teenlineonline.org/yyp/yyprunaway.htm
http://www.tpsrep.com/questionaire.htm
2006-07-03 14:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that came to my mind is: does she have a cell phone? Do you? That might help. Obviously working on communication between the 2 of you is a priority. Is there a person you both trust? A priest, minister, rabbi, imam, guru, etc. or a therapist, or counselor? You need to make an agreement about how and when you will stay in touch with your Mom. If you have clear-cut rules then you can stick with them, and she will know what she can expect from you. That way, you can set your limits with her in a safe environment. Good Luck!
2006-07-03 14:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Can't get a hold of her to tell her where you want to go? Your butt better be staying at home till you clear it.
2. She got physical? Immature and probably illegal!
3. She kicked you out for this?! You guys have issues beyond this. You two need to sit down with an unbiased third party and resolve your issues.
4. You need to come up with ground rules that are respectful to you both.
5. Good luck, kiddo
2006-07-03 14:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by palookamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Timing.
Find your mom in a more relaxed mood and talk to her. Explain your side.
Whatever ways are -- physical or not -- one thing is for sure. She loves you very much.
The reason your mom wanted to know your whereabout all the time is she's so concerned and wouldn't want you to be harmed. Times are different now. Any place could be a place for a crime or an accident.
How would you feel if she doesn't care wherever you go? Won't you feel neglected and uncared for?
Come on. Cheer up. Your mom loves you so much.
2006-07-03 14:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This the women that birthed you, bathed you, dressed you and changed your stinky diaper! Show respect to the woman you call mother. When you went out without asking her, she was worried because she loves you. So, you can't get ahold of her? Then DON'T GO! Tell your mother you were wrong and that it won't happen again. If she got physical with you, there has to be a reason for it. You hit her first, didn't you? When you are a mother, you will realize all that she does for you.
2006-07-03 14:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda hard, but have you tried apoligizing. Moms are weird sometimes and all they want is for you to understand that they were worried and scared. But things shouldn't have gotten physical, on either of your parts. If you feel safe being at home with her, if you guys can keep things fairly peaceful, maybe you should be the better person and say your sorry and ask to come home. Communication is a very important thing....but like I said, I know it isn't easy.
2006-07-03 14:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by janab712003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 04:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
admit you did wrong and show her you can obey the rules she may change her mind then talk to her about what was going on when she found you why really you never pick she be mad but tell her you want to talk open about what you do when your out side and this way there more trust between because must gave reason for why she don't trust you and you need to talk more even if she don't want to hear you and she hit you because of fear of could of happen to you could of been worst. so build trust and tell the truth and if she disagree with you what you are saying listen why then think about what she saying and think is tell the truth and then see if that what you really want to do or do you want trust back i loosed my mom but we had lots of fight but think if some thing was to happen to her how would you feel it you could nt talk to her and how much you miss so say what you need to know and make it count good luck and remember make trust you see more important then anyone Else
2006-07-03 14:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by dollygril411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1: Respect. Have some for yourself, have some for Mom.
Step 2: See step 1.
That will solve the problem in the long run.
2006-07-03 14:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you couldnt get her, you should have stayed or gone where you agreed to meet her in the first place. Now her kicking you out that was a little to far unless you have done this type of thing before.
2006-07-03 14:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋