Has your family ever talked about you behind your back?

Question

If your family talked bad about you behind your back share your situation,because we all go through it,I just wanna hear someones worst or equal to mine.I heard my own aunt talkin about me when she was on the phone,saying bad things about me.Is your story related.

Answer 1

My mother-in-law does more than talk bad about me behind my back. She says bad things to my face, steals my clothes (even my underwear!), dishes, perfumes, always talks about how she wanted my husband to marry his ex, puts me down to my children, hits me, belittles me when we're in a crowd out in public, tells me that she's going to find a new wife for my husband, underminds everything I do or try to do, refuses to come to birthday parties for my kids because I do them American style........I could go on and on. But the main thing is that I love my husband and my kids, and she is part of the family. I may not like her, but I have to treat her with respect and curtousey,,,,,,and then stay away from her as much as possible!

Answer 2

yeah. my family has and still do talk about me behind my back. they seem to can't stand when someone else is tryna do something good with themselves. when i first received a job, my aunt was talking to my grandmother saying how funny people act when they get money. at the time she didn't have a job. i felt really bad just knowing my own aunt and grandmother were saying such terrible things about me. i later realized that they were jealous and couldn't stand the fact that i had a good paying job while in high school. no matter what ur family say about u, do the opposite. be better than what they're saying about u cuz no matter what they are gonna talk just like those in the streets. just know what u need to do to be successful and get through life.

Answer 3

I was dating someone of a different race (he is black and i am white) and my half-sister Laura met my boyfriend Jeremy. Well, I don't know where I was, but I found out later on from my mother that she said that my boyfriend is "too good for me." Meanwhile, here is what my mother failed to tell her: my boyfriend didn't take me out on dates, he caused my grades to drop in HS, he would just come over my house to watch Dragon Ball Z and Thundercats, and my mom was buying him clothes and giving him food to eat. I ended up marrying this man 2 years ago. That hurt me alot. And yes, I have caught my mom, my OWN MOM talking nasty about me. I sympathasize with you. Except I have confronted my mom when she did it, and I never had a chance to confront my half-sister about what she said.

Answer 4

Of course... my mother.... to just about all the rest of my family.. my sister.. my brother... my dad.. my auntes and uncles and cousins... See.. she doesn't like my wife... she did like her until we announced our engagement... from that point on, not-so-much. She has said some nasty things about her and that has put me in a tough spot... and there have been fights... and my mother has said and done some pretty nasty things to me.. about me... I basically have nothing to do with her.. and when my father passes away... and he's 81 and will probably go first as mother is 13 years younger... when he goes.. I won't have anything to do with her... or the rest of the family... but I look at it as their loss not mine.

Answer 5

YES. my family has talked about me left n right mostly aunts well she has a daughter n well things that she would say bout me doin (which were not tru)her daughter ended up alot worst but they only talk to put you down but what i cant stand is that they dont got the guts to tell me to ma face. but all i say is dnt talk bout others cuz you dnt kno wat you got in store for yourself....you got a long way to go.....they start talkin about you because they are jealous or dont have a life and want to see you fail. ........misery loves company.....

Answer 6

My whole family (grandma, grandpa, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc.) had a pow-wow when they found out about my political beliefs. One night, I walked into my grandparents' house expecting a warm dinner and some nice conversation, but instead got lectured for three hours about how I was going to hell. Then they told me that I wasn't allowed to go to prom OR see my boyfriend! It was unbelievable.

Answer 7

Oh yeah. I once heard my entire family saying that I was a no good brat and that I started all the fights in the household.

Answer 8

My mum and brother always tend to whisper behind my back and say hurtful things about me. Whether it is about something I said that might sound stupid to them, how I dress or how I look. My mother is two - faced. As much as I love her, I can't ignore that fact. To me, she is lovely and says that I am 'the best daughter' and act better than my brother. However, to my brother, she mostly just says mean things. Whenever he isn't around, she treats and talks to me properly but when he is around, she likes to show off by saying insults, comebacks or anything to show that she is smarter than me as if she wants to impress him (yuck). Her behaviour around and with him really makes me feel not only hurt but sick to the stomach.

Answer 9

some families live by backstabbing motto's. mine talk about and lie [some of them] to try and build themselves up. for what? i don't know. some talk to keep from telling on themselves. and some just don't have a life. the others are jealous and the rest who are like me just don't give a damn about what they say.

Answer 10

My cousins always talk about me and all of the things are lies. I really dont care what they say, cause i say if they are talking about me, then i am must be doing something right for them to actually find time to talk about me.