i have seen my boyfriend for about one and half year,but recently, he said he no longer wants to stay with me all the time,like stick with each other.he said he still luvs me,he just cant take that anymore.he needs some space to breathe.so i let him go,go back to where he wants to.i have no idea why he has such thoughts,at least whenever i ask him, his answers always are:he likes to be with me. i accept wut he wants,so i stay in my hometown and start to work.then i ran into a man,he said he fell in luv with me at the first sight.he sent me home,took me to work,and we went out to see movies or sth like that.he's nine years older than me,and he treats me really nice.my boy is a poor student,so whenever we go out,i tend to pay money for him.but with this man,he pays for everything.he treats me really well,and...un...we slept together.i didnt mean to,but it just happened.i know its wrong.i'm regret now.so tell me,if u were me,how would u choose?wut would u do?would u be honest to ur boy?
2006-07-03 13:59:52 · 8 answers · asked by irischung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is always the best policy. If he doesn't want to be with you, how much does he love you anyway? He might have done the same thing and didn't tell you so just go on with your life and you'll be okay. If your boyfriend freaks, that's his loss and just make sure you're safe. You can't control his reaction. Liebe und Frieden.
2006-07-03 14:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lizrd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl for one he said he wanted space to breath, in others words meaning he wants to move on (in a nice way of saying it). Second of all u did nothing wrong, so u met someone that wants to take care of u and love u, go with it. If u plan on spending all your money on a guy that needs to breath! I think u should let the boy know what is going on in your life because it is his loss. He is the one that needed to step away so u enjoy this new happiness with the new guy and don't ever feel bad. Good luck girl and have fun!!!!!
2006-07-03 21:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by weezegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the 9 year age difference guy wont work out you know and he liked you alright because he wanted to get into what you have. now its pretty much up to you and Ur conscience on weather you tell your man or not , but i think it will cause hurt he don't need .
2006-07-03 21:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to be honest to him if yr fallin 4 some1 else and he said he wants some space he must bu creep creep creepin while u sleep sleep sleepin LET HIM GO KEEP YR NEW MAN
2006-07-03 21:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by keanda g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really know things but it sounds like your boy is just using u or something n this man you just met,really something.so..its up to you.which one makes you happier?which one you cant live without?and you also have to be clear yourself that you're not using this man who fell in love with you.he's nine year older?
2006-07-03 21:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by coreng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u said he is a boy and boys can't be responsible, with or without the other man forget every thing about that boy and stop your relation with him
2006-07-03 21:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by K.D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may speak and answer without many excuses for some reasoning that u are perfek ,,,,,,u think perfek but u not perfek
2006-07-03 21:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know I'm a guy but i would tell him deal with it and if he gives u a wrung answer tell him 2 f*** off
2006-07-03 21:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by necroknight3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋