2006-07-03 13:54:54 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a matter of religion for me, I just thought I would "save" myself for the right guy, but he doesn't seem to be around.
2006-07-05 01:59:51 · update #1
First of all, Thanks for answering my question on here.
No, don't just sleep with whoever you meet and/or whoever meets you. You've got to know what feels right inside youself, not from outside source(s). Only you will know when the feelings right.
2006-07-04 08:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jason B 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I didn't know there is an age by which you should have lost ur virginity. You know what is best for you, but personally I do not see anything wrong with being 24 and being a virgin it just means that you havent caved in and followed the crowd. I think ur first time should be special and I dont think that is possible when you have no feelings for the other person. Trust me if you do this now when the right guy (no one is perfect but there is always someone out there who is compatible with u and who will love u for u) comes along then u'll regret not waiting because u know that it would have been more special with him. I am 20 and a virgin and honestly I am proud because I feel that waiting gives sex the special meaning that it has unfortunately lost.
2006-07-03 14:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you give up on that after so many years? When you give up on your beliefs.. your values.. your dream.. what do you have left? Just sleeping with somebody for the sake of loosing your virginity isn't going to make you feel any better. In fact, it will probably make you feel worse because you've waited 24 years!
There is a Mr. Right out there for everybody... you included. If you have believed for 24 years that that's what you should do.. give your virginity up for the right guy... then you should be willing to wait another 24 years if that's what it takes.
2006-07-03 14:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you come to be a 24 year old virgin? Listen, you are not a freak. The time will be right when it will be right. You will find someone and you will know when it's time. If it's because of religious beliefs, then try to find someone at your church or in religious singles groups -- in other words, similar minded people who will respect and understand and not pressure you. There are a lot of virgins in the world and I applaud them for sticking to their guns by wanting to be more selective and choosing to wait. This is an active decision on your part. Do not feel ashamed, be proud. It wasn't too long ago that the freaks were the ones who had sex before marriage. Now people have kids and "live in sin" with fair regularity. Maybe you are a conservative, old fashioned type of person -- and there's NOTHING wrong with that. BRAVO!
2006-07-03 13:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a 24 year old virgin? (I was 26) Ha! I got 2 years on you. Anyways, hang in there and keep looking for that right guy. Or focus on something else like school or work and one day the right guy will find you. Don't just go out and sleep with anybody. You'll have more respect for yourself. And others will respect you more. Good luck.
2006-07-03 14:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by RussellMania 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 24 and still a virgin, stay that way.. Do not let the world make you give up a most cherished means of life. Most women would love to be a virgin at 24. Unless you are married, then i say no to sleeping with just anyone. Save yourself and you will find it more satisfying with someone you truly love.
2006-07-03 14:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by charles70769 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness, no. Don't sleep with whomever you might meet. You sound like a smart person. Nothing wrong with being a 24 yrd. old virgin. But - Should you meet the person that you love (and you'll know love...), and if it all feels right for you, then maybe that's THE person. Above all else, don't be too analytical. Enjoy yourself, enjoy being a virgin, and enjoy, when the time comes, being very, very much in love.
2006-07-03 14:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look on the bright side at least your not the "40 Year Old Virgin".
I definitely DON'T think that you shouldn't just sleep with any random person. Because then it won't feel as special as it would be with someone that you truly love.
Not trying to be rude, but have you ever thougt that maybe the guys that your hanging around with aren't looking at you as someone that might want to fool around with? Try not being one of the guys, but as more. May be they only see you as a friend.
Try to be more flirtacous yet witty. Don't act like a whore, cause most guys don't like that.
2006-07-03 14:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by prisc_mnty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No NO!!!!dont just sleep with anybody. I would love to be in your place right now. You have to realize that you are a treasure that someone deserving has to find and keep. Wait for the right guy, he is out there. Just dont go sleeping with whomever you meet because losing your virginty is something you will remember for the rest of your life and you dont want that memory filled with regrets. (I know all about that) I'm just gonna finally say that you should stay true to yourself.
2006-07-03 14:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by skyblu513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't sex. If that's all you want, go ahead, I guess, but I'm sure you'll enjoy it much more if it's with someone you care about and respect. Remember that you are not living for any man, but for you, so don't have sex just because you think it's wrong not to or have a boyfriend you don't really love. Thich Nhat Hanh said this (paraphrased): "The destination is the journey". Love between two people is about the search as well as the experience. Good luck! Liebe und Frieden.
2006-07-03 14:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lizrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What??? no! I'm 26 and still a virgin and darn proud of it. it is the most valuable thing to me, and i am going to keep it until I am ready to let it go. You should be proud of yourself for still being a virgin. Today it is like the norm to sleep with the first guy you meet. Why not be unique and special. it will be way more special if you wait until the right time.
2006-07-03 13:58:11 · answer #11 · answered by Govinda505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋