what will i do to erase the feelings i have for my love one?

Question

he always insist his forbidden love to me i want to escape this feelings i have for him because i know our love is wrong!!

Answer 1

True love is a decision not a feeling,and this is the Spiritual section so I'm giving you a Spiritual answer. Forbidden why? Because your affecting other people's lives, and breaking covenants that shouldn't be broken. You can make the decision of loving even when you don't like them, (this is for the other person I guess) now. What you need to do is what you know is right, you can't be exposing yourself to this person (be around him) if you feel so tempted, sometimes we have to run, like Joseph in the Bible when Potifar's wife was hitting on Him, He told her that He couldn't do this to God. You can't betray your own conscience, it will hunt you for ever anyway, you think if you fall into it it will get better or just terrible and wore? The Bible says "sin feels good for a season", then what? Your going to ruin your life! Don't explain, meet, talk nothing,Just run! Get as far as you can from him and do something so God can send you the right one, He has somebody special for you, Did you know that? Don't mess up His plan, be patient, do what's right, and His reward will come.

Answer 2

It is very hard to erase feelings. Keeping your distance and not falling into the position of having to see him or hear him will help.
Forbidden love is extrememly enticing for some people.
Try to throw yourself into work or another activity to take up the time.
Don't spend your time thinking about what could have happened... Best of luck. It is a very difficult thing you are attempting, but stay strong.

Answer 3

That rough, Always have a tough time getting over feelings I have for someone, friend or lover. I'm 40, and the pain still hurts the same as when I was a kid. Time to grieve for each one seems to do the trick. An undetermined amount of time...

Answer 4

Sweet Heart, i know exactly how u r feeling, i've been in you shoes...and...there's something very powerful you can do...you can pray...that God would take that feeling away..but you have to believe that the Lord will answer u...and i assure u He will if it's what he wills for u..and as my other friends said...try to avoid him as much as possible...n don't worry, ur heart will heal..and the day will come when you do fall in love so deeply and madly-but this time RIGHT and in God's plan...
Jesus Loves u, whoever u r...and he's in pain b/c u r ...don't worry, just believe:>:>

Answer 5

If you both know that your love is forbidden and wrong then you need to move away from it. See a psychiatrist for help.

Answer 6

Good luck. I fell in love with a bad boy in 1986. We are not together and haven't been for 16 years, but the feeling has never gone away. Those feelings don't leave especially if he was your first love.

Answer 7

your love cannot be wrong. the way u loved may be wrong. love need not be erased. change the way u love your loved one. see, there r certain rules in our society. we the human beings believe in relationship which no other animals have. for ex. animals have only mother & child love. that too for a certain period of time.after few years the mother can even mate her son there. but haman beings have permanant relationship & we should follw the rules of the society which we have created . so, chane your love according to the relationship which y have. , if the way u love him is wrong according to the rules of the human relationship then u have to change the way o love him.

Answer 8

Well It depends on your love for him. it seems to me good cause there is no bad explanation. I will say some feel love is a bad thing , but to christ it is a good thing. God has made us atracted to one another to build up his kingdom. If you dobt I would ask god What type of love it is? It may be decievin love or even lustful love ,but true love is pure. James 1 5-6 If any man lack wisdom Let him ask of god that givith to all men liberally and upbraidedth not. and it shall be giin him. But let him ask in faith nothing wavering for he that wavereth is like the sand of the see tosed to and fro. For let not that man think that he shall recieve anything of the lord A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. Truly I believe that principle . If you Question that it would be hard for you thou living with him may be hard do to you ask the lord for strength and he would guide you. With that in mind . Why do you feel your love is wrong You said its wrong Right. Why question yourself unless there something inside you that draws you .It may be god or even the spirt.But regardless for me to call this guy a flat loser who you need to dich ,I sujest you answer the why part of my question.Proverbs 3 7 trust in god with all the heart.........

Answer 9

It isn't love your feeling, it's lust. Love is a commitment, what you are feeling is a desire of the flesh, not of the heart. It's an addiction to something that feels good but in fact is not good at all. When we are left to our own desires, we can do nothing but destroy ourselves. See it for what it is, temptation to do something that has pleasure for the body for a short time, but has dire consequences in the long run.

Answer 10

If this is about your cousin, it has been genetically proven that their is no increase in disease or birth defect from cousins marrying. The law probably varies from state to state, but I know for a fact that it is not illegal to marry your first cousin in most states. Rich people do this all the time to keep the money in the family. Not to mention royalty keeping their blood lines pure. It is frowned upon in the U.S. but it is quite common in every other country. If you don't belive me google it.