OK...theres this guy that i have history with..we liked each other a year ago..not committed but i felt a lot for the guy..ok so we stopped hanging out so i could get over him (even though he didn't know the reason)...well we hooked up after he still thinks i'm attractive and of course i still feel for him a lot....well while im not waiting aruond for him i just can't move on until i have all feelings cleared out of my head and since he still calls at random times and we just made out ..not planning to of course just happened and he always initiates it and this time i didn't put my foot down last time i did...ok well my problem is ...some friends didn't know of the situation and when i told them who he was to me...like someone in my past...and he treated me really weird in public even though i just saw him the day before just me and him hung out and he had been fine...some girl that i know who found out me and him had some fling..she asked are you his girl?..and i said NO...and she
2006-07-03 13:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
said that she heard a group of people with him..like people around him talking about his girl..or some girl that he talks to on the phone a lot..and she asked have you talked to him on the phone..and i said no not a lot recently..yesterday we talked a lot and today i text him..but not a lot other than that..and she said maybe they were talking about someone else..but now i'm freaked out that he is talking to someone..i wouldn't care but i freaking hooked up with him..and he said that he hadn't been with anyone but me for the past year..and i believed him because he is the one who brought it up and made sure that i knew that..so i'm so confused...and then friends are like they were probably talking about you..and i'm like i seriously doubt it..so how do i find out if he is talking to someone ..how do i go about it..???
2006-07-03 13:45:57 · update #1
I think you need to decide what kind of a relationship you want with a guy. And then look for a guy who will have this kind of a relationship with you.
If the guy you are with now is not willing or able to have the kind of relationship you want, then you need to look for someone else.
The key to all of this is that you need to decide exactly what you want. You need to have a standard against which you can measure your relationships and decide if they are right for you or not.
When you have no standards then you end up doing what other people want. And this often ends up being what's best for other people instead of what's best for you.
2006-07-03 14:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 19⤊ 3⤋
Well relationships are always different, and usually confusing. It`s just the way it is. You did not mention your age in your text, this is probably quite an important piece of information that isn`t given. Also the age of the guy isn`t mentioned.
I have a friend who I see often and we manage to just about get on even though we have Hadley nothing in common. But every single relationship is very different, and has to be handled differently. Try to use your mind (keep a clear head) and hopefully you will do the right thing for that particular circumstance. Good luck, best wishes.
2006-07-03 21:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by MARTIN B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out ask him, best way to get an answer to a question you have is to ask the question. And you'll know by either his response or the way he handles you asking the question whether or not its true since you've known him a while.
2006-07-03 20:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah!if u really trust that guy,well believe him...some friends also can be evil making him look bad in you...if that guy means alot to you well forgot bout what ur friend had told u...but just incase its true u got to be ready...
i got fight with my bestfriend and 2nd 'brother' just of arrguing if my bf got another girl...they dont like him so im thinking that they want me to broke with him...look 4 clues but the best thing to do is just forget bout this thing...just get ready,kk?
2006-07-03 21:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the question?
you enable him by maintaining contact
it's your fault
you will not cut the ties
so he knows he's got a booty call any time he wants
2006-07-03 20:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,.i think u better thik positively n move on with ur life.
2006-07-03 21:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by KNNCCB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eek, im sry....i'd answer if i knew the end of ur backeound information, lol
sry...hope things work out!
2006-07-03 20:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by MODICTIONARY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i just kinda stopped reading halfway through that so uhh......good luck
2006-07-03 20:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
2006-07-03 20:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not worth it ... stay away from men ...
2006-07-03 20:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by Poopsiekins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋