my boyfriend?

Question

my boyfriend would be sweet to me in school but he didnt give me attention like he should have ppl thot that we were just friends and it kinda got to me. one of my friends liked to mess wit him alot and i didnt like that and when i told him that he said"u cood have told me" and i said u shood already knew" anyways when school got out he didnt really call me and my mom didnt like that so she thinks i should break up wit him cuz she thinks we aint gon out anyways so what should i do be with him over the summer or find sumbody else??????

Answer 1

its up to you. if you dont get enough time with him then i believe you should talk to him about it . then make a decision

Answer 2

I think he has moved on and you should too but not with another boy. Take a break for the summer and hang out with your girl friends. You could have a lot of fun with them at the mall, the waterpark, the beach, or the movies. You should get to know yourself. He's just not that into you!!!

Answer 3

I think you should wait. Don't rush into either, break up or stay together. 5 months ago, he didnt' want you to buy him something for valentines day. He seems to be a good shy guy, you know the saying Kiss & don't tell. Lots of guys kiss & tell, he doesn't seem the type.

Answer 4

You should break up with him. He should pay attention to you in school and out. If he only pay attention to you at school he doesn't really like you and if he flirt with your friend he must flirt with other girls too. He should call you in the summer time if you two aren't seeing each other alot. He will break your heart.

Answer 5

break up with him and find someone else. just go up to him and say i dont think this is meant to be and im really sorry but its over. if he says something like but why then just tell him i told u its just not meant to be, but how about a goodbye kiss to make ends meet? and then kiss him and maybe hug him too and then maybe wait a few days and look for another guy.

Answer 6

You have to understand some people are more private with how they show emotion. And if they are made to feel self conscious, then they show less emotion even in a personal situation.

With that said... Listen to your mom (ALWAYS) she speaks from years of experience.
It's hard sometimes ... giving up something we want. Best wishes, sweetie.

Answer 7

I say to talk to him. confront him, tell him how much it hurts you and how you feel. if he doesn't change (nor offer to try), tell him that you feel he isn't interested in trying. Then say bluntly "you act like you don't care about me, it hurts me. If you wanted to break up with me all you had to do was say it. If you need time to yourself all you gotta do is ask. But...otherwise i understand us breaking up". I had that talk with my boyfriend (we've been together for a year). He changed after that. But also, ask your boyfriend if he is having personal problems. My mom got in our business too ! [me and my boyfriend], but he later confided in her that he was having personal problems. so...you never know until you confront the guy. if you just break-up without confronting him you'll wonder 'what if" forever. You need to at least get the closure of him him verbally acting like an idoit, even after he knows your true feelings.

Answer 8

Dump your boyfriend for the summer and opt for summer school. I recommend perhaps some English courses, and a spelling tutor.

Answer 9

Maybe you should be telling your g/f to lay off, not him, is he a shy person normally ? are sure you are considered his b/f by him ? given that u don't go out together. Maybe he just doesn't know you think he is your b/f and prefers to build model aircraft after school.

Answer 10

Find someone else. He sounds like a jerk. He doesn't respect you or care about you enough if he acts that way!

Answer 11

If u really care then u should stay with him. But if he's gonna treat you like that then u need to find someone that's gonna treat you like you deserve to be treated.