2006-07-03 13:30:26 · 45 answers · asked by leisureeric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-03 13:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Joose 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 03:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not here to judge you like the others...only God is equipped to do that. Best advice I could give you is this: you two made a vow to each other, "for better or worse". Right now is the worst but that doesn't mean it can't get better. Yes, you should defintely tell her about your indiscretion and that you have it. How do you know you gave it to her, has she shown signs or have you?
According to the CDC millions of people in the United States are living with the disease AND millions of people are living with and transmitting the disease and they just don't know it (maybe even some of these people responding to your post, smile).
Educate yourself and your wife about the disease. It is not a death sentence. If I were you I would thank God I have that and not something life threatening. It's no different than getting a blister on you or lip, only you get a blister in a more private area. Same sensations and healing process.
This should serve as a wake up call to you to leave your "other woman alone". As my grandmother always says, "Everything that looks and feels good to you is not always good for you."
Also, seek counseling to strenghten your relationship and fix the reasons why you stepped out on your wife in the first place. Rediscover the reasons why you married her. Love her like you love yourself, be good and kind to her, ask her for forgiveness and change the things that need to be changed. Women like ACTION not TALK.
Telling your wife you contracted this disease will be one of the hardest things you will probably ever do in life but it is also one of the most COURAGEOUS and LOVING things you will ever do.
Don't expect her to forgive you right away, be patient and wait for time to heal the wound. If she can't and is unwilling to forgive you...understand, move on, and forgive yourself.
Expect the worst, hope for the best. Believe in your wife and she just might believe in you and surprise you.
Good luck to you and best wishes for the future.
2006-07-03 16:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by msindependantthinkery2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better tell, before the doctor tells her. You are dead!! If you were my husband, I would cut it off for you and solve the problem permanently! Since you are slime, try to slither up enough courage to prevent her from being totally humiliated when the doctor finds it. She will be hurt and embarrassed when she finds out that you have been with some, equally slimy, person who gave you herpes. It will be hard enough to hear it from you, without her finding out in a totally degrading way. What a jerk you must be!
2006-07-03 13:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am absolutely terrified and I feel so alone. I just found out last week that I tested positive for hsv1 and 2. I have been with the same man for the past 10 years and within the last year found out that he has cheated on me with numerous women. I am so scared that I can give it to my children by kissing them and them eating with me...I feel like my whole life has changed. And even though the nurses, my doctor, and websites say that a lot of people have it I still feel like I am by myself. My self esteem has dropped and I feel like I have been used up. But now, My life is very happy.
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2016-05-14 20:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be very easy to judge you but my question is do you still love your wife? Do you want to continue the relationship? Do you think she'll accept. I don't think I would. Do you want to leave her? Do you know why you cheated on her? Are you still cheating on her? If you love your wife and want to give a chance to your relationship then you should first try and understand why you cheated on her and break up the relationship with the other woman and then tell her. If you don't love your wife, tell her and leave. She deserves sincerety and honesty. We all do. I'm sure you know what's the right thing to do deep inside. You just need to gather the courage to do it. Just think of the man you'll become if you choose to lie and that will help. There's a good guy inside of every man.
Good luck,
Nathalie
2006-07-10 05:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nathalie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you could always tell her that you caught it from kissing a toilet seat.
she MIGHT buy it. a friend of mine told his wife she got a case of crabs from sitting on an 'infected' toilet seat---and the poor thing was so dopey she bought it. he stopped being a friend of mine after that---that's no way to treat your spouse.
you're a moron. i'm afraid that whatever you get, you deserve.
and yes, tell her where the herpes came from so she can start some medication for it. she may not leave your sorry as$---but i think that whether or not she leaves, YOU need to be a man about this and tell her the truth.
2006-07-03 13:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, your a complete jerk. And yeahhhh of course you should tell her, who the heck else is she going to expect it from? Gosh, here's some pointers, next time you marry someone think about what your doing. Also once you are married you don't go sleeping around with other people, there's no need for it. Tell her and be ready to shatter her heart, a$$hole.
2006-07-03 13:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are a pig and a coward. Go ahead fess up and I hope your wife takes the house, car, kids, and your paycheck for the rest of your life and then your pension.
2006-07-03 13:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her. If you don't tell her you are compromising her health. You've already done enough damage by messing around on her, at least have the courage to protect her health. Good luck.
2006-07-03 13:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋