I have been with me boyfriend for three years now. We've been going to high school together. I graduated but he didn't. He will be graduating next year. I'm going to college but I don't wont to leave him because I love him and I know he loves me too. Should I stay with him and wait for him. or shoyld i leave.
2006-07-03 13:22:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're willing to make a commitment and wait for him and you also know that he will wait for you then why not go for it? The only problem might be is if he's going to a different college after he graduates or he's moving away.
2006-07-03 13:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave! Think about your future. You are about to begin a new phase of your life, with a whole different set of ideas. You have so much ahead of you right now, that you really don't want to be held back and dragged down by him. If you both were going through the past three years of high school together, what happened that he didn't graduate at the same time that you did. If he didn't complete some classes, what was the reason? There are too many extra questions that remain unanswered. But move ahead with your life. Because it is your life.
2006-07-03 20:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What career path do you want for your life? Can you take courses that will give you the best education in or near a college where you live? Three years is a long time to be with someone, and it would be difficult to leave them. But, as someone who's probably twice your age, I was too bored with school, and didn't finish college. I make a good salary now, however, there are kids just a little older than I imagine you to be, and our company plucks them out of college with their shiny new degrees, making 3 times what I do. So....realistically, you need an education to make a good life for yourself.
Romantically, it's a tough choice to wait for him or go.
Do the 5 year projection in your mind. In five years, where do you see yourself? Will you have a college degree, or be on your way into a med school program, or law school or on the verge of starting a promising career? Do you see your boyfriend in this life? Is he the supportive type that will see your achievements and help you celebrate them, or will he be the one to hold you back from pursuing your dream. I believe you feel you are in love with him now. But will this love survive separation? Will a separation enhance your feelings and strengthen them?
Good luck!
2006-07-03 20:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by castlecollector2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay the course, 3 years is a long time, it sounds like a solid relationship so by all mean stay with him
2006-07-03 20:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by coach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go on and start college. If your love is as strong as you think it is than this situation shouldn't seperate the two of you. If anything it will make you closer. And if it doesn't work out than it wasn't ment to be in the first place.
2006-07-03 20:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Regina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,first of all your education is more important than a man. If you can wait for each other it was meant to be. If that's not the case then you need to discuss.
2006-07-03 20:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by hotornot26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, never put a guy before your education.
2006-07-03 20:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this is what you need to do. You should go back to 3rd grade where they show you how to spell and use grammar.
2006-07-03 20:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave!! your education is more important than a highschool relationshiip. if its meant to be then your relationship will last.
2006-07-03 20:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by MiZZ CURiiOUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay with him.. you guys can make it work if its real love
2006-07-03 21:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by team_ank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋