i had a crush on this guy for a long time and my "best" friend knew about but then two weeks ago she tells me that there going to go out now and that it "jus happened" and she didnt want to hurt me and the guy jus had no remorse for me because he knew i liked him and knew that we were best friends. should i stay friends with her or leave her alone. and with the guy what should i do with him??
2006-07-03 13:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in this exact situation once before. Well I think you deffinitly can't trust your "best friend" anymore because clearly she has no respect for you or who you like. The guy, if it's worth it just stay friends...It may just be better that way.
2006-07-03 13:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you! It was wrong for your friend to do that to you, but then again I guess they were meant to be since it didn't work out for you and him. There are plenty of other guys out there, you might not think so right now, but give it time and you'll find someone you like even more who will like you back the same way! So if she is a good friend thats worth keeping, then don't let that ruin your friendship, and as for the guy forget him. Or you could just show him what hes missing out on! ;) Flaunt what u got, just cause he's with your friend doesn't mean he can't realize that you would have been a better choise!
2006-07-03 13:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some respect for yourself, leave them alone. They are not your friends. Friends do not stab you in the back and then pretend to like you. They would not have hurt you like that if they were your friend.
My best friend and my husband went to bed together. I packed his clothes ande put them on the front porch. Then went over to his parents house to wait for him to come home. I asked him where he had been the night before and his ans. was driving interstate for his job. I nicely told him he was lying because I had already called his boss the night before to see why he had not gotten home by 11:00 p.m. His boss told me that my husband had gotten off work at 3:00 p.m. the day before.
I was deeply hurt but refused to bend to the urge to holler and scream at them. I was better than that.
That was near 20 years ago. I have never regretted my decision. To this day I can remember that nothing they did was my fault, and when people ask me about it I can honestly say that I wasn't revengfull to them.
2006-07-03 14:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that in this case, although you are bothered by the fact that your best friend is dating the guy that you like, honey.... you really have to let it go. Sometimes people come in our life and we mis-interpret the true meaning of why the were there in the first place. everyone that we like may not be meant to become our lover or husband/wife.We have to accept that and decide whether we can deal with them just being a friend or not.
2006-07-03 13:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by mrscandytowns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first just forget about the guy cause hes nothing to begin with.. and you should leave your girl cause what she did only proved what kind of a friend she is.. she has no respect for you or your feelings and thats not what a real friend is for
2006-07-03 14:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by team_ank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them go, cause if the both of them knew how you felt, they shouldnt have done what they did.
2006-07-03 13:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find out if you're friend is telling the truth. if she is, forget the guy. he doesn't like you! and if you're friend is a girl that normally wouldn't do things like that, then you should forgive her. its not her fault they are good together and you and him aren't. right?
2006-07-03 13:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends with them and show them that it doesn't bother you.
2006-07-03 13:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEE BABY, YOU DON'T NEED A FRIEND LIKE HER THAT'S WHY I DON'T **** WITH A BUNCH OF HOES JUST LEAVE HER ALONE BECAUSE IT MIGHT HAPPEN AGAIN
2006-07-03 13:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋