I have a boyfriend who I really like,and he really likes me, but theres this other guy who likes me and wont leave me alone and I am nice to him and I think my boyfriend is gettin mad at me for being nice and talkin 2 the other guy...wut do I do
2006-07-03 13:19:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell the other guy nicely that your boyfriend knows he likes you and that you have to respect your boyfriend. I'm not saying stop being the other guy's friend - but maybe just don't see him as much or talk to him as much. Your bf has a right to be jealous - this other guy is tryin to get you and if he spends enough time with you he may think that he has a shot at breaking you and your man up.
2006-07-03 13:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah my boy was like that, but for some reason, people like us are born with niceness and it’s not us to be mean. So I think you just need to sit down and talk to your man and just explain to him that “hopefully” you have no interest in the other guy and if he trusts you then he needs to be OK with you hanging with the other guy. Sorry if I confused you but hope I helped.
2006-07-03 13:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your boyfriend then I think you just answered your own question. It sounds like you're annoyed by this guy who "won't leave you alone" so tell him you're not interested and if he persists, stop being so nice to him and giving him hope.
2006-07-03 13:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by kase19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quiet talking to the other guy if you care about your boyfriend. Just nicely tell him You have a boyfriend and that you can't talk to him anymore.
2006-07-03 13:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the other guy that u r not single and that u do not like him as anymore than a friend. and tell your bf that u r not flirting with the other guy. tell your bf u love him and that the other guy is only a friend. then make out or even more with your bf. or at least kiss him.
2006-07-03 13:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should plainly just tell the other guy that you have a boyfriend and that he doesn't appreciate you talking to him...or you can try to fix your boyfriends insecurity by trying to reassure him that you just want to be friends/acquaintances with this other guy.
2006-07-03 13:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is the jealous type tell him to deal with it if you were friends with this other guy before you started dating him,if not tell him to deal with it anyways. I f he can have female friends you should be able to have male friends that's me from experience with having a jeaulous boyfriend.
2006-07-03 13:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you encouraging this other guy to make the guy you are interested in jealous? If you are then Stop! Politely ask /tell the other guy you are not interested in him.
2006-07-03 13:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to the guy.. talking to somebody who likes you while your in a relationship is disrespectful to your boyfriend and will bring unnecessary drama
2006-07-03 14:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by team_ank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u make sure ur not TOO nice to this otha guy, stop payin so much attention to him, ur man is obviously alil insecure and why is it this otha guy wants so much of ur attention, maybe bc he wants alil more from u, u need to make up ur mind which one is more important to u.
2006-07-03 13:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋