I had a crush on a girl.
I am now studying in a university and one year to go.
Should i go with the feeling or resist it and concentrate in my studies?
If go with the feeling what must i do?
If concentrate in studies?
Thank you.
2006-07-03 13:15:50 · 23 answers · asked by Aka R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just finish your schooling... it will be harder if You stop and then start again... I'm telling You this from personal experience.
2006-07-03 13:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by M L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this...you study...look up deferred gratification. You put aside a bit of fun now for a whole lot of fun and a high income later...please trust me on this one. I'm talking from experience. I had a great time and went to uni at 49. Is that what you want? I coped with the course, but who wants to employ me now?
Knuckle down and get the best pass at uni you can as this result stays with you the rest of your life..or will you go to each interview and say "Well, there was this girl..not sure where she is now..bet I could have done better without her but I didnt have the brain". Work hard now, play very soon, but play with a good pass and money in your pocket!!!!
2006-07-03 20:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not fully understand what you are asking, because some details to your situation are lacking. I can understand if you desire to keep the information private, but it would help us a great deal more. However, despite this, I shall attempt to answer your question.
It is my personal opinion that you should concentrate on your studies and obtaining your diploma. However, that does not mean that you should neglect your social life, all together. It is one things to go out with friends once a week and a completely different thing to go out with friends every day of the week. If you want to date one of your peers, then date her. Just do not your involvement with her to take time from your studies. I tell my friends and myself to first do our "homework" and "study" for test, then call our boyfriends and/ or go to the clubs.
2006-07-03 20:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by moonguardianluna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How important are your studies to you? If they're important than study. If you think you can live with a "B" then take a chance on the girl. If she's worth it, it really won't be that much of a compromise. She'll let you study when you need to and you can go out when you can as long as you return the favor.
2006-07-03 20:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your studies and worry about the rest later. You will have your studies for the rest of your life women will come and go. Besides you do not want to wait until your last year to mess up.
2006-07-03 20:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you asking that question, then you likely well on your way to early marriage, early kids and followed yb early divorced with your career suffering in the process. Women are a dime a dozen, espcially once you get a well paying job, are very career oriented. It's then women will try to kill your dream by demanding more and more of your attention, and if you are weak you will give in and then it all comes crashing down. I have seen to many guys give in, when in reality they do not have to, they do not need GF, ect.. as their lives are full, and they are an occasinal good time, once they have all there ducks in a row, there house paid for, then and maybe then they look for a GF, the foolish get married at their own peril.
2006-07-03 20:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to choose either one, you should balance your time between study and date. I trust that the girl will give you a lot of encouragement. Good luck.
2006-07-03 20:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by ma l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do both. A college instructor once told me and other students, to "Only spend a reasonable amount of time, on home work/studies". To only study is not spending a reasonable amount of time.
2006-07-03 20:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should concentrate on your studies and only date once a week.
Let your cruch know your feelings, if she can't understand then she does not care much about you.
2006-07-03 20:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by andriene1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your studies. Don't waste your money nor education on what if's.
2006-07-03 20:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try to get your priorities straight. Which would be more important to you. To complete your studies. Get your degree. Get a good job, then get a good girl. Or...
Screw the studies. Screw the girl. Screw yourself out of a future.
You figure it out.
2006-07-03 20:17:52 · answer #11 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋