2006-07-03 13:15:12 · 18 answers · asked by Christine E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the rest of the relationship.
2006-07-03 13:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Norm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your certain circumstances but if this is a serious relationship you guys should be comunicating....and you should let him know that he hurt your feelings. There are two reason a guy would say that to you. #1 He is jeolous and doesnt want you to look good so no other guy will be looking and #2 because hes a jerk. No guy in their right mind if he cares about you will tell you you look bad at no time. So maybe you need to talk with him or if its the first one get out of the relationship before its too late!
2006-07-03 20:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by flonehotmamacal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. I don't think that just one mistake is enough reason to leave someone but if he is constantly mean then you should get out of the relationship. Could be that you just took what he said to hurtful and he didn't mean it that way at all. He may actually think he was helping by telling you that whatever you were wearing is not flattering and that you look better in other things.
2006-07-03 20:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by mojo jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, did that happen to you?
Welp. I dunno. Usually me and my boyfriend don't take that kinda tone w/ eachother...It sounds like that one guy was trying to make you feel bad about yourself when you might have felt good, which is NOT a good quality in a guy. Are there other jerk things this guy has said? If so, toss him. No guy should ever try and make you feel bad about yourself.
W/ me and my boyfriend, if one doesn't like what the other is wearing, then one will merely say 'that's ugly. you'd look better in something else'...We don't like, diss eachother.
2006-07-03 20:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell him that it hurts your feelings when he talked like that. If he is constantly talking to you in that manner, dump him before your self-esteem is gone completely. Partner is suppose to make you feel good abt yourself and not disminishing your self-esteem.
2006-07-03 20:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Broke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i woulnt but some girls let tha guy control them and acually let him say anythimg i mean if ure in love with him and he said it out just like that well give him another chance
2006-07-03 20:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by jeanete 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say that that guy has no clue how to talk with a lady...i wouldn't say that to my sister...sooner or later he will do something else that will annoy you and make you leave him
2006-07-03 20:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!! Get rid of him. He either doesn't care about your feelings or has absolutely no tact. If he cared about you he would have said it in a non demeaning manner.
2006-07-03 20:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Debra P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really meant it and wasn't serious then that is diiferent. If my boyfriend ever said that to me i would tell him to hit the road,if he was serious.
2006-07-03 20:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by hotornot26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not, if you think u look good then thats all that matters, not someone elses stupid opinion on whats cool or not
2006-07-03 20:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋