I am feeling like my wife doesn't trust me anymore. What should I do?

Question

After the whole Celini debacle, I am getting the impression from my wife that she just doesn't have faith in me anymore. We got back from the razing and got back to the bookstore and the daycare (she's great with kids) and I guess she was more upset at my spinelessness than usual, because there was a sort of incident at work. See, normally she keeps her hobbies and work seperate. She doesn't really like mixing business with pleasure (although she enjoys her work immensely). But apparently she started indoctinating some of the preschoolers and one of the parents got upset and told her off. Now I am of the opinion that for the new world order to be achieved, we need to indoctrinate as many people as possible as early as possible. But then she's the brains of the outfit. Anyways, when I found out about this, she told me that she would take care of it herself, rather than letting me settle the gory details. I want her to be independent, but does she have confidence in me anymore?

All I did was hesitate when she gave her last order on Celini. I wasn't sure (see previous question) if she had gone over the top a bit. She gets that way sometimes. Sometimes she's right though but sometimes she's just angry and upset and is not thinking proportionally. I sometimes feel that she just doesn't understand that you need some people left on the world once you take it over to carry out your commands, otherwise there really isn't a point in elevating one's self above the masses as a living god. After all, what is a god without a following to worship her? I admit that I might just not be seeing the big picture with her, and lord knows it is inappropriate for me to question her infallibility. I just wish that she'd listen to me sometimes, rather than become obsessed with dispensing righteous justice. It might make her a better dictator.

Answer 1

What in the hell is your question ?

Answer 2

my wife called me from work one night crying. she was showing off pictures of our child and some jack *** said "if that was mine I would have killed it" ten miles and five minutes later I was at this kids throat ready to **** kick him from here to god knows where. never touched him though. I was hero of the day everyone she worked with knew about it and everytime they saw me they would look like damn he loves her. I got into it with my dad for saying something stupid about her. I beat the living day lights out of my sister on xmas eve' after she hit me with a tv dinner, gallon of orange juice, a ginger bread house and a stack of x mas cards. one time I didn't stand up for her and she thinks less of me for that. don't ever let her handle the problem, she wants you to take charge and say no I'll take care of it they will never do it again.

Answer 3

I think she does trust you and has confidence in you, but maybe she is feeling bottled in, let her do her own thing if she is happy sorting it out herself, she is an adult and Im sure she can handle the situation in an orderly way.....Trent

Answer 4

Women are naturally untrusting. Seek counseling if it gets out of hand. My husband is very insecure and untrusting. Maybe its something we do wrong? I think not.

Answer 5

walk the way the wind blows

Answer 6

You seem to be holding back info.

Answer 7

COMMUNICATION! y'all are married right? it's all about compromising. the brain does not function without brawn.

Answer 8

what did you do to dis-earn her trust pal

Answer 9

pay attention to her and do all as she says :-)

Answer 10

well what did u do to her