i have no complaints about being single but im thinking i am ready to settle down again my problem is all the girls i have been meeting are like 21 or 22 I just dont find them as mature as someone in there late 20s or 30s im not dissing any young women i just have not dated a girl 15 yrs younger that me what should i do should i give a try or wait for someone a little older the younger girls are hot please give me some advice
2006-07-03 12:41:30 · 11 answers · asked by irish70 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice to you is to keep dating the younger women recreationally. "Settling down" is overrated.
2006-07-03 12:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, I have met my twin. I'm 32 but I'm lucky enough to pass for 24. I have been single for the past 4 years. I own my home have a great job, and date a lot. My problem is the women. I have never dated a women my own age, to much baggage or kids etc etc. I have dated a lot of girls in the 22-25 group and I share your issues. I stopped drinking about 7 months ago so I stopped the "Bar" scene. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. The quality of girls I have been dating went up considerably. I want children I just don't want to be the "OLD" dad. But I won't settle either. Were gonna be O.K. I just need to realize I'm not the greatest thing in the world either, and life is a huge compromise. I met a great girl about 2 months ago. The same will happen to you too bro. I believe in addition by subtraction, take yourself out of the loop, sit back and discover what you need and makes you happy. Good luck.
2006-07-03 19:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 31 i'm dating a guy who's 25. He's very mature but sometimes once in a while the age makes a difference. I want to settle down, and he's no where near that. I continue to see him cause i really enjoy his company but i'm not keeping my fingers crossed hoping he'll change, He's his own man and i respect him. So i suggest waiting for a woman who is closer to your age. She'll have much more in common. But life surprises you so good luck
2006-07-03 19:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by glowchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, younger girls are always hot. And at first they think older guys are sexy - so mature and all that. But I guarantee you, you will get almost as bored with their "iwannagotothemall" chatter as they will with your bulginh belly and flagging libido. Stay closer to home (unless of course you are too young for women your own age).
2006-07-03 19:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Fred S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem is you are missing out on the great women that are closer to your age. There are hot girls in their 30's you just need to find them! Trust me, we are out there.
2006-07-03 19:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Debra P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you were when you were that age. Would you really want to deal with someone at that age now that you've gotten the smell of milk off your own breath?
2006-07-03 19:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go to a different place to meet the right girl. If you hang out in party places all you are ever going to find are the airheads.
2006-07-03 19:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by caltizar1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in your mid 30's, why are you dating ladies in the early 20's????
try a woman closer to YOUR age, and see what happens....
2006-07-03 19:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Wildflower6969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try internet dating
2006-07-03 19:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're coming across as desperate to women your age. Act like you don't care if you meet someone, and boom.... there she is!
2006-07-03 19:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anna Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋