Why is it so natural for the boy to want sex from the girl, to beg for it, and for the girl to refuse?

Question

okay,so why does it seem so natural that in a relationship the guy will want to have sex with the girl at any given time, while the girl will want to wait before sex, will naturally refuse the boy? why does sex, an equally pleasant activity for both parts, seem to the girl like a reward for the boy? why isn't sex equally desired, or why don't the girls beg the guy for sex?

Answer 1

I read somewhere that we are programmed (back to cave man days) this way. The males needed to spread their seed as widely as possible. The female was going to be pregnant nine months and needed to select the strongest, most capable male to be sure she was taken care of and the baby would be too.

Answer 2

You are finding the wrong girls, it sounds like. Sex is and SHOULD BE an equally pleasant activity for both parties.

Sorry but girls usually don't have to beg for sex because like you said guys are always ready.

Answer 3

In all reality it is because guys are more into the physical fulfillment. Because of guy's and the natural animalistic urges we have always look for the physical , we think that the girls are not as interested. It isn't quite true. Girls are more into the spiritual fulfillment, and want the emotional fulfillment. In all reality, a girl that is willing to wait, is going to be a better person also. She has morals and self respect and is less willin to be played like a game, and is going to be a better wife in the long run. The girls that are "easy" are more likely to have emotional baggage and can be very self involved due to the baggage.

Answer 4

Okay I know this one.

With a guy it's about getting some. With most girls about being in love and feeling a certain way about someone before you do anything with them. It's the best thing you can give to a guy and if you're not with him for a long time then you showed your best 'move' too early. With girls it's about love, it just hurts to think that you could share something so important to you with a guy and then brake up. With guys it's not that important, but with girls it's just a mental thing.

Answer 5

Well I naturally would say that the men would have a bigger size of sex and horniness for girls while most girls are just willing to want to know the guy more!

Answer 6

Because all girls like about 2% of all guys and would have sex with them without hesitating, the other 98% have to beg.

Answer 7

Because the girls have dignity.

When you are in a relationship and your everyday actions show you really care about her, then she'll be willing to engage in physical intimacy. When your actions in the bedroom show her how much she means to you, then she'll beg you for it.

When your motivation for sex is to satisfy your own biological urges, the experience is usually disappointing for the female. When your goal is to really share in the experience, and you put her desires first, the experience is mutual pleasure.

So don't be selfish in the sack!

Answer 8

let's see ..the girl knows that she can get pregnant and may not be ready for that responsibility (even with birth control, accidents happen). The girl might not be emotionally connected to the guy yet. The girl might be afraid that the guy is using her for just sex. Ah, the list goes on.

Answer 9

I have had to beg for sex before.... after the first round of course! Guys like to fall asleep and leave the woman unsatisfied.

Answer 10

Trust me females desire sex too. However, we do not want to be rushed or be asked for it. We rather it just happen on its own without rush. Females do not have to beg guys for sex because guys are the ones offering it to us. Girls don't want to feel as though we are just for sex. For most of us females, sex is something very intimate. For most males, sex is just something they want to satisfy their needs.