I am looking into asking a girl out, but I'm not real sure what they like on a first date, or any date.
What do girls like, and like to do on a date?
2006-07-03 12:27:56 · 34 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go shopping
2006-07-03 12:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by †♫♫♫♥☼♥♫♫♫† 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont go over the top on the first date and respect her space. The first date is the one that sets the tone and interest for a possible second. A nice bouque of flowers ( no roses) to give to her upon arrival. Dont be touchy feely, nor kissing on the first date- that is a major no, unless she allows it. A simple hug and you could ask her if it is ok to give her a kiss good-night. Again just respect the woman/girl. If there is a particular movie that she is interested in then you could there. Alot has to do with age so not sure what age bracket you are in. Simple dinner or lunch followed by a walk in the park with conversation about her, let her ask about you but show interest in her and this is the time to get to know things about her to see if there is any true interest and chemistry.
With summer being here, waterparks are also alot of fun and you can chill out with a soda and talk to each other in between all the fun.
2006-07-03 12:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl but here's my general guidelines...to just go to a movie or play there's not much room for conversation BORING....yawn. To go out for dinner there's nothing to do but talk........but about what?? Two hours of staring at each other over dinner table without too much to say could be TERRIFYING.
Why not find some ACTIVITY to do TOGETHER? Mini-golf doesn't take a great deal of skill, maybe a batting cage would be fun, shooting some hoops, a bicycle ride through the park, roller-blading if she's not "sporty" try the art gallery, a museum or aquarium. All of these things give you something to talk about while you are having fun and a chance to really get to know each other!!!
2006-07-03 12:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl but if it's a first date don't be 2 forward it might crep her out just be normal and the first date is always the one u need to worry about ....u should know a girl doesn't like to get bored especially on a first date they like to have FUN fun and more fun!Anf then on the second date be a litt;e more romantic ....good luck :))
2006-07-03 13:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nohemy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take her to the carnival or the beach. Then have dinner at your favorite place. Let her find somethings about you. Be close to her. Make sure your breath does not stink. Gently brush your shoulder agaisnt hers. Comfortably put your hand around hers. DO NOT CAUSE TENSION. Girls hate a mixed signal. Then hold her hand. Talk to her. Make sure you wear something cozy like a cozy warm sweater, if it is cold where you are living. or wear something that suits your eye color. Put your hand around her waist and tickle her. Go walking on the beach and look at her lips often, like all you want to do it is kiss her. Make sure at the end you kiss her and whisper in her ear that you love her.
2006-07-07 18:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by your rescuer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the responses, most girls enjoy the opportunity to get to know you and to have you get to know them. I would agree that the best kind of first date combines an opportunity to do something while getting to know each other. Why not start off with something simple like going for a walk? You will be out in the fresh air, exercising and getting to know each other.
2006-07-04 00:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to her, take her out to a nice dinner at a place of her choosing, movies are always good, or if you're in a large city and there's an entertainment complex, take her there. A lot of this depends on the age of the girl and where you're located geographically.
2006-07-03 12:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Have fun
2. Get to know the real you
3. Get dressed up
4. Eat like a gluttonous piglet[to show you our passion potential and to see if you have a weak stomach]~LOL!
5.Try new things
6. Not to be pressured
7. To be complemented
We are baiting the hook, having fun, and deciding if we ever want to deal with you again.
Unfortunatley, some ladies like to tease a man into a frenzy, and walk away:(
I love it when a man brings flowers or candy as a predate indicator. It puts me at ease and let's me know he is putting his best foot forward.
Good Luck and have fun!
2006-07-03 12:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually take girls to a pool hall on first dates, if I think they like pool. It if a fun game where you can do a lot of chatting and getting to know each other while having fun at the same time.
2006-07-03 12:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by lameskater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a first date i like to involved in conversation, food accompanies this very well. I like to be in an enviornment that lets me look at you in a different way. Movies suck cause you cant really talk to eachother. I love when my guys shows up smelling good. I like that he makes me laugh. Our first date i got to really look at him as a potential bf instead of just a freind cause we talked alot , he did bring me flowers on our first date that was so awesome. Old school charm and consideration never gets played out.
2006-07-03 12:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by glowchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a first date make sure you both laugh!
A movie, stupid restaurant or a bad Carnival, just laugh. You can go from there because the ice is broken and you do not have to pretend to each other!
2006-07-03 12:31:56 · answer #11 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋