Ok, me and my gf went 2 the movies last week 4 the 1st time toghether. She was about 2 pay 4 herself but I paid 4 her. She wants 2 go 2 the movies again wednesday. I don't have a problem w/ it but I can't afford 2 go 2 the movies and pay 4 both of us every week, I don't have a job. Should I let her start paying 4 herself or will she think I'm a cheap jerk? Is the guy supposed 2 pay 4 everything?
2006-07-03 12:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by Dan T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really like you she want care.
2006-07-03 14:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by 3adj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you, then you should be able to explain, 'yeah, I'd like that, but I don't have the financial means to pay for you'. Look for alternatives, like rent a movie instead or go for a walk or a drive thru the park or something else. Dates don't HAVE to cost, and if she has a problem with that, then she's not the girl for you anyway.
2006-07-03 19:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you will go. Then suggest some things to do that don't cost money. Take a walk in the park.
2006-07-03 19:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by buttseyeluv43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe when she says she wants to go to the movies you should suggest doing something else. like just take a walk to the park or go bowling (which is cheaper) or something like that. good luck.
2006-07-03 19:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by blondeswimmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her nicely to help out and tell her that you do no have a job and could she contribute to the movie funds if she wants to go out I do that with my b- friend all the time.
2006-07-03 19:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by fieldmicegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends... if she was willing to do so, maybe you can say, "hey, this time it's on you?" or something, if she's your gf, then she would know that you dont have a job, rite? she should understand, and if not.... idk, maybe just let her know that it cant be a weekly thing... just dont come across as some cheapskate who doesnt want to pay, and all should be fine
2006-07-03 19:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly..but you should just let her pay her own for the movies
2006-07-03 19:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋