I prepared a trip 4 me and my then-boy friend. i paid for it all & organised it for SUNDAY. on the friday b4 this, he was ill and i spent the evening with him he said he would phone on saturday 2 tell me if hes still up 4 it. on saturday he went clubbin & didn't phone me, it was for early in the morn and i was gettin a bit agitated so i texed him & asked him if hes still on for sunday. he said he feels worse and doesn't no anymo so i basically said "ok, forget it, i'll take sum1 else" i basically didn't take any else1..i never went in the end - waste of money & energy...anywho, i'm at work today & bumped in2 a b*tch frm school, he said she saw my guy in a club SUNDAY night..I immediately texed him & exclaimed how hes 2 ill 2 c me but well enough to jump up & down at a club!! ok was i jumping to conclusions too fast, could he have been telling the truth all along?
2006-07-03 11:44:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just 2 add. hes protesting his innocence , texting and phoning but i delete the tex without reading and dont answer the call...i just FEEL as though he stood me up to get revenge at me for something?
2006-07-03 11:53:54 · update #1
No, he's a liar and didn't want to go with you. Give him a blast and possibly move on.
2006-07-03 11:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What does your gut instinct tell you? If you want my personal opinion, I would say that he was playing you. Ecspecially since he went out Saturday night, and just couldn't seem to go with you on Sunday. He should have been resting Saturday so that he would have felt better to go with you on the thng you had planned. My only real question for you, is, did you plan something that he actually would have liked to do with you or did you plan it for yourself mostly? If this is the case, he is a cheat and a liar, and you need to dump him.
2006-07-03 19:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it looks like he has a better time witout u so mayb that should tell u som,em i had a friend that did the same thing she stayed wit em & he dumped her after 5 years of him lien but im sure you will b back wit em just know STD has no friends & u can become its BEST FRIEND keep it real sista u dont alway need a man 2 make u happy
2006-07-03 19:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by jacci mcann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1s of all does the girl have any reason 2 lie 2 u?? does she have like a bad reputation??
if yes then maybe u did jump into conclusions
2006-07-03 22:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by icehot_pk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he was sick friday and Saturday. He felt good enough to go clubbing Saturday, but he was too sick to go with you Sunday? And then was seen clubbing Sunday too? Get rid of that jerk! I would be pissed too!
2006-07-03 18:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Catfishchic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should always ask first before assuming stuff because some people try to start stuff between a couple......if he acts funny then u know that his friend or whoever told u the truth
2006-07-03 18:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't jump to conclusions. Make him prove he wasn't at the club. I don't blame you at all.
2006-07-03 18:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u doubt him there's a deeper issue here. 1st instincts a rarely wrong...
2006-07-03 18:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by La_Belle_LadyR99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gutt
2006-07-03 19:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by True 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋