He's my first boyfriend and we are really serious but I feel the need to go experience other people and meet other guys before I settle down. What should I do? Stick with him and wonder, or try to fix what's not broken?
2006-07-03 11:43:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you let him go now you may regret it and may not be able to get him back. See how things go, if you are happier with him then you would be without him, stick with him. If this is your first seirous boyfriend i bet there will be more to come. Stick with the relationship, when its ready to end it will end and you will be able to experience more then. There is nothing like your first true love and many people would love to have a serious boyfriend instead of still having to search. If you are that adament on experiencing more new things right now and feel it would make you unhappier to stick with him i would end it nicely and explain truthfully to him why.
2006-07-03 11:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should take some time before you do something like cheat on him because of these feelings that you are having. Talk with you man and maybe he is having the same feelings or he just wants you to be happy but also know that there is a very big chance that he is going to be really pissed off. But it will be better for both of you in the long run if you do something now before you hurt each other later and make it a deeper pain
2006-07-03 18:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by spyder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean this is your first serious relationship and if you feel the need to explore then you should really see what else is out there because if you prolong it it may hurt him more. My boyfriend and i were together for 3 years and he decided to break up with me he ended up dating other people and then he realized that he wanted to be with me. We've been together for 4 1/2 years. He also just wanted to explore. If it's meant to be then him and you will end up back together but you need to get this out of your system other wise your not going to have that great of a relationship because you'll feel like your missing out all the time. If he understands then he will be alright. I was hurt but when it happened to me but I knew it was something he had to do.
2006-07-03 19:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by jean22005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you need/want to see other people then do just that.You need to go out and have fun and enjoy life!Just tell this guy that you like him,but would like to date other people.Not until you are totally sure who you want to be with should you be tied down to just one guy.
There are very few,but lucky people that find "The One" right away.For some people it takes years and dating many guys to find that person.I dated alot of guys up until I was 23.And then when I finally found the guy I wanted to be with more then any other,that's when I cut all ties to the other guys.We've been together for almost 7 years,we're engaged and we'll be getting married next year!
Have fun while you can.
Good Luck to you Dear!
2006-07-03 19:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by tiger_lover_1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion, stick with him and don't wonder at all! If this is a good man, stick with a good thing. It's hard to find a good thing, and very easy to find a bad thing. You don't want to risk losing your good thing just to experience something bad. That leads to regret, and if only situations. If you go looking for other guys, and looking for other experiences, expect him to do the same, and ask yourself these 3 questions: Would that be okay with me?? If he finds someone else, and ends up with her, will I regret that?? Will I always wonder 'what if'?? And answer honestly to yourself. There is always the possibility that both of you would go your separate ways, and be happy about it. It all comes down to what you truly want out of life, because either way, believe me, sooner or later you will experience it all.
2006-07-03 18:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with him. if he is the one, then might be he will not like that u will flirt with other people and u should think like what u will do after getting the experience from the boys. love is beautiful, don't make it a dirty game of playing with lives of others
2006-07-03 18:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by priya b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? take it from someone who has been there.. ur only young once..if u dont live alittle it will bother u later and u will regret it.. if he truly loves u he will understand and wait for u or stand beside u.....but remember u also take the chance of losing him for good.. sit down and way both options out..... no rash decisions here....
2006-07-03 18:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your boyfriend but still keep your eyes on a couple of people. because sometimes the first isnt always the one you need.
2006-07-03 18:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go with your heart, because right now if you feel the need to be with other guys than it's not the right time for you to be with one guy.
2006-07-03 18:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by dragon_fly200430 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, there's no one better than who you have. don't make the mistake of breaking up with him for your own selfish reasons just to realize he is the one. if you're lucky, he'll still be there but there's no guarantee. you're serious with each other (i'm guessing love each other), have fun together.
2006-07-03 18:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by beth a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋