How much do you trust your girlfriend if she keeps getting calls from different guys even at odd hours?

Answer 1

i wouldn't

Answer 2

I have guys who call me at odd hours. I have girsl who call me at odd hours. My boyfriends knows these guys, and knows whats up. Ask her about them, straight up. If she gives you a direct answer, and says they are friends, she's probably telling the trueth. Does she leave right after the calls? If not, then its doubtful they are hookup calls. If she squirms with an answer, she probably got something to hide.
Dont be put off though if she tells you its private. How would you like a chick friend telling all the guys you know about how you cried on the phone for two hours over some chick.
One last thing, if a girl was cheating, she wouldnt tell you they were guys calling. She would lie to you and would probably wouldnt ever know about it.

**the thing that makes this hard for most guys is that girls dont look at guys the way guys look at girls. Guys are always thinking about sex, and see all women as a means to that end. Girls just dont think like that.

Answer 3

That one chick was right. I'm honest with my boyfriend, probably too honest. I had guys calling in the middle of the night too, but I would be confident enough to let him talk to them..sure they might be looking for one thing, but do you always know where she is? Does she show you how much she loves you, or does she just tell you and she disappears for long periods of time? Love is an action, not just a feeling. And talk to her about it. Tell her to stop getting calls. Its probably already happened and you're still freakin out over it. I bet you're the only one in her life. And trust me, it wouldn't be in your face if she was cheating. If she's old enough, she's got enough experience and smarts to creep quietly...

Answer 4

If she gets call from guys at all hours of the night, she's probably that guy late night creep girl. And I'm not supprised that she has other guys calling during the day. Beleave me. I aint no joke. I have never called a girl late at night unless she wass a sure thing. And the fact that she has others guys calling, shows that she is someones sure thing.

Answer 5

A relationship is about trusting one another. If the fact that your G/F keeps getting calls bothers you then you should talk with her about it. In order for your relationship to work you must both agree on a resolution to this situation. If both cannot agree on a solution then both are agreeing on a gap in the relationship which will only produce more problems in the future.

Answer 6

Been there bro, except that my woman under no circumstances took me lower back.... i imagine you should provide her 30 days. 30 days of 0 verbal substitute between you and her. that would favor to be a great cooling off era. you should apply this time to type your self out. Why were you treating her so badly? What are you able to do to quit your self from doing it lower back? tell her each and every thing you informed us right here, mutually with the mad stuff. Admit to what you've carried out, because in case you do not, you'll under no circumstances substitute, no count number who you're with.

Answer 7

has she ever given u a reason not to trust her? girls can have guys that are just friends.. but if it really bothers u that bad express ur feelings to her.. if she loves you she will understand and and take ur feelings into consideration.. ask her if she would like it if u started getting phone calls at all times in the night....communicate its the key

Answer 8

I would say you don't trust her. dOES SHE TALK TO THEM WHEN THEY CALL? If she says she can't help the calls, they are from before you two met, then ask her to change her number. THe answer you get, will tell you what you need to know. Good luck

Answer 9

i am a girl and i have a boyfriend and i have boys calling my phone. my boyfriend and i talk 2 each other and tell each other things so he would have 2 trust me when i say that they are just my friends so u meed 2 trust her i am sure that u have girls calling u on your phone and she is wondering the same thing

Answer 10

You don't. Most girls will tell you that they expect and deserve respect and loyalty. The same goes for us guys. If she is constantly talking with other guys, and at all hours, she doesn't respect you, and you are setting yourself up for a big disappointment in life.

Answer 11

It would drive me nuts. What guys? how many? How does your girlfriend know them? how odd are the hours? What does she say? what does she say to them? so many questions!