Long story I'm going to try and make VERY short.
I was 18 when I got my first girlfriend (not to mention my first kiss), it didn’t last long and ended very badly, I was heart broken for about 8 months. I'm 22 now, still haven’t found anyone else, and I still don’t really seem to find anyone else "attractive", not that they don’t like the way they look...I guess the best way of explaining it, is that if I can't really see myself waking up next to the person everyday, then I don't, like I don’t want to screw anyone over, like I got screwed myself. I've been attracted to a girl recently though, and it feels weird because its been a long while, but I know it wouldn't work, and she’s already with someone else.
And no, I'm seriously not looking for people to say, hey well do this, or pick up some drunk girl. I want to know if people have had similar problems, and what they did about it. Its not that I can't pick up women (even though it would be hard), its just that I dont want to...
2006-07-03 11:24:02 · 3 answers · asked by D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...in a way
2006-07-03 11:24:15 · update #1
Considering I'm 22 and still a virgin, I'm actually questioning wither that really means anything or not.
2006-07-03 11:26:48 · update #2
Morals, what morals? I'm not a virgin by choice you know
2006-07-03 11:34:53 · update #3
kevbeer2003, people like you make me glad that this is a country that has laws for gun control.
2006-07-03 11:54:10 · update #4
Awwww, that's so sweet. My husband didn't lose his virginity until he was 25. It's nice to see that people still have morals. All I can tell you is that it's wrong to try anything with her, as you already know. I'm guessing that you are a smart man with a good head on your shoulders, so my advice is to move on, the right girl will come along.
2006-07-03 11:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by chana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do want to and you are a coward. you have wasted too much time. You whack off too much, and to deny this is a major sin, greater than whacking it could ever be. You need to stop being a wuss. Get with ugly chicks, one that likes you. Stop worrying about everything, feeling down. Stop playing video games, using drugs, whatever your nerdy *** is doing. Get a good job. you are going to miss out on life if you keep this up. GROW UP.
p.s., I sorta know how you feel. being a virgin at 22 is a joke though buddy
2006-07-03 11:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by kevbeer2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 03:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋