i have not had sex in 3 years and i plan on waiting until i get married, but i am going crazy! i have been seeing this guy for a while and want to have sex with him so bad. any suggestions? should i keep waiting or just do it?
2006-07-03 11:23:05 · 25 answers · asked by cutie_1016 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a tough one because it sounds like you have had sex so this isn't about the whole virginity thing. The thing is you have made no sex a part of who you are and set a goal of not having sex till you get married and I believe you feel good about that. That staying true to that makes you feel good about yourself. There for I think the best thing you can do is honor your commitment to yourself. In the long run I think you will be happier with your self for having done so.
2006-07-03 11:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 22⤊ 6⤋
Try 20 years. I was re-united with a person who I have loved 20+ years via computer almost 2 years ago. We live states apart and I have seen him twice since then. We talk every day for at least 2 or 3 times. This summer I visited and things got deep but no intercourse and I know we love each other. We didn't get it on 20+ years ago and not then; just very close to it. I strongly believes he's the one because he is patient and respects my religion. Yes, sometimes we do slip with what we say but we pray about it and other things together almost daily. We aren't incredibly old either and still have very much of a drive but he listens to having a blessed relationship. Even though we got a little carried away in the summer, I believe that God will honor that sacrifice. Me and my friend have touched on other things in life that we have helped each other with such as his mother's healthcare; his health and a family situation of mine. We are the best of friends and if he loves me much as he says he does he will honor my desire to please The Master. If there is no God there is no peace and eventually no good, strong relationship.
2016-03-16 21:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait
2006-07-03 11:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your man will have more respect for you if you continue to wait. I can only suggest masturbation at this point. My girlfriend and I are also waiting until we are married, and this is the 3rd marriage for both of us. We didn't wait in our previous relationships, and they did fail. Not always the case, but it is better to wait than to take a chance.
2006-07-03 11:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am still impressed with the 3 years...i see this as I did my Old Navy boycott...I just never went there...it got to be dubious..I ended up literally AVOIDING THE PLACE just for the fun of it..I would not enter..if friends were going..i'd sit on the bench outside.,.
what I am trying to say is..you got this far....keep it up!! wouldn't you feel worse..if it sucked and THEN you didn't even marry him??
2006-07-03 11:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've waited 20 years for the right person. There are other things you can do alone or with each other to relieve the sexual tension. Stay true to your convictions.
2006-07-03 11:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to wait, then wait. If you made the decision for a reason, then you should stick by it.
Stay strong!
2006-07-03 11:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what you want. If you want to wait do that. If you want to have sex with him do that instead. It's as simple as making a choice.
2006-07-04 06:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by ahauntedhistory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, especially if you want to marry him. There's a reason marriage seems to be disappearing.
2006-07-03 11:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep waiting honey. Don't give into your feelings. Save it until marrige, it's a special gift and it's meant for your husband.
2006-07-03 11:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to marry him, then you will have the rest of your life to have sex, so what's the hurry? Stay strong!
2006-07-03 11:30:20 · answer #11 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋