I know the guys, used condoms and it might happen again..Plus I have a boyfriend..
2006-07-03 11:17:42 · 32 answers · asked by mshoney281 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also want a woman's opinion
2006-07-03 11:21:05 · update #1
Guys do it all the time, so why does it make me easy.
2006-07-03 11:24:26 · update #2
When guys do it they are Kings, when a women does it they are skeezers
2006-07-03 11:25:45 · update #3
lol good for you threesome's rock!
2006-07-03 11:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask this question? You are very aware that it is wrong. The biggest problem is that it is very degrading to yourself. You are giving yourslef a label of being a sl*t. The guys are talking about it already, trust me. If your so called boyfriend was a part of this, he is showing you the utmost disrespect, and if he wasn't a part of it, you were cheating on him. He will never be able to trust you, and neither will any other person. I think that you probably have more self respect than this and hope that you will not do this again. You need to be fully aware that you are a beautiful person inside, and that once you lok for all of that beauty,and release it, you wont feel the need to do things like this, and you will begin to feel better about yourself as well.
2006-07-03 11:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something: an old college friend of mine whom I recently got back in touch with tells me that he managed to wreck a relationship doing something very similar to what you describe. It is playing with fire.
See, whenever you have sex, it creates a permanent change in your relationship, and you leave a bit of yourself behind (and the other person does too) if you break up or go off with someone else (even if your bf is right there in the room watching and approving of the proceedings)(1).
This is why it makes a lot of sense to wait until you are able to have a permanent, exclusive relationship before you contemplte any kind of sexual contact. You get independent of your parents, make that permanent, exclusive commitment with one person, and then become one flesh. In that order(2).
So, yeah, it makes no difference whether you merely know the guys, it makes no difference whether you used protection. There are good reasons to refrain in the future that have nothing to do with any of that.
May God bless you and keep you
2006-07-03 11:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's wrong. Are you trying to destroy your life? Just because you used a condom does not mean that you are saved from catching an STD. Why would you do something like that if you love your boyfriend? It shows that you have little respect for your self and the people around you.
2006-07-03 11:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you have a boyfriend yes, its wrong but I don't think having a threesome is wrong. You were smart and used protection but you were not wrong to have fun sexually. I have had a threesome and it was great. But you have a boyfriend what would he think if he found out.
2006-07-03 11:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by simeonxavia22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying that your wrong but I'm wondering how will you ever be able to look at yourself in the mirror again? I don't think I would ever get over that.... I'm sorry, It's your life but just think: It's going to affect your self image for the rest of your life! If you had a daughter, would you want her acting like that?
2006-07-03 16:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you choose to do is up to you and no one here has the right to judge you for it. As long as you are happy with who you are and the things you do and it isn't against the law or hurting anyone else then that is fine.
2006-07-03 11:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was one of the guys your boyfriend (not much of one if he was)..OR was your boyfriend left out of the fun. That's an important element you left out. I know this is fun- but too much of this kind of stuff and you might get labeled a whore (not good - guys like to brag)You need to get one guy who can fullfill all your needs..You'll respect yourself more and so will he. be good...
2006-07-03 11:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what a bunch of people think (including me) enjoy while it lasts just try not to hurt anyone or get hurt in the process.
Trust me is better be sorry for trying than sorry for not trying
2006-07-03 11:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by I'm a brain in a Jar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong and you're being easy to get...don't use "guys do it all the time" so what if they do? does that make it right?NO..you should learn to have SELF CONTROL! avoid sleeping with random guys, that's immoral.
2006-07-03 12:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by ♥JCluvsu2!♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of behavior is terrible, and you will be used as a toy, if you don't mind being used - party on.
2006-07-03 11:20:02 · answer #11 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋