Me and my boyfriend broke up last night over something really stupid. We both love each other very much but we're too stuborn to call one another and try to straighten things out. I wanna talk to him but on the other hand he disrespected me so bad that i cried a little bit.
2006-07-03 10:35:01 · 20 answers · asked by *~*TinkerBelle*~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he disrespects you, why would you want him back.
2006-07-03 10:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cried a little bit because he was disrespectul toward you. Is he often this way? Does he treat you with respect? Crying is not a big deal - i cry when i watch the news, but disrepect is a big deal. If this has happened before I would stay broken up. SOmetimes love is not enough. Respect is never stupid.
If he calls you don't rush over there.
2006-07-03 10:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stephiony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait til 3 days later and then call him. I think he need a little time and sometimes people disrespect other people with they are mad and when the time they need to be alone. I think you call too early. Wait till it's 3 days later. I think he get it straghten this out with you. He probaly still likes you but he needs more time.
Good luck!
2006-07-03 10:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know, that he dist you. If he really loves you, he would really want to know. and if he doesn't the only way you can tell him. is suttally during an entiment moment. Do not call for while. if he calls you, sweetly and calmly tell him, the truth about how you feel, while breaking into his apology, then apologize for breaking in,now what were you saying. If doesn't call you, and you really want/love him, casually meet him somewhere common, and say " I see you don't love me. because if you did, you would have called me" then tell him, that's ok. I if he wants/loves you ,he won't give you crap. If he does'nt ,then,he will give you crap. if you are true, you don't deserve his crap P.S. men love to be admired, but keep your self-respect
2006-07-03 11:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Terrence L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he disrespected you, it may be you who loves him, but, he doesn't love you. He made you cry. If you love someone, you do not disrespect them. Was he verbally abusive? Do not call him! Find someone who respects you. You will be glad in time and you will see this person is not the best person for you.
2006-07-03 10:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by moonmother2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares about you, he'll call. You got to test him a little bit, especially if he disrespected you. If he doesn't call you, it might hurt a bit, but at least you were mature about it.
2006-07-04 10:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by jestelap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the book "he's just not that into you" sounds harsh but its about respect and what you deserve from a guy - try not to yell at him on the phone - the guilt trip always works best... and always you "i was feeling" or "me" cause if you use "you were being mean" or ohter 'you' statements, it will turn him off from the convo and just make him more mad - if you direct the argument about yourself, it will make it easier for him to understand where you are coming from... plus, your the girl - make him feel guilty hurts them more than being mean/bitchy - make him appologize by being nice about the situation
2006-07-03 10:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jana H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT call first if you do you give up ground and he will think he can pull this ever time to get his way if he cares he will call to day or tomarrow
2006-07-03 10:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lakeith W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the guys job to call you. It's his fault, so don't ever, ever called him again. He needs to kiss butt to get back on your side.
You also need to tell his ***, never to disrespect you again.
2006-07-03 10:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who was at fault? That is the one who should apologize. If you both hurt each other.............I would say wait a few days and then see what happens.
2006-07-03 10:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him that you want to talk about things. tell him how you feel, and how you thought it was innapropriate for him to treat you like that. or talk to you like that. say that the whole thing got out of control and you would like to work this out
2006-07-03 10:38:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋