I used to ignore it, but now it’s starting to bother me. It started with small items and a bit of fun but now he wants to go out dressed. I fear for the future and I want a man in my life not another girl! I do love his nature though and I guess I'm just afraid of what the future would hold. I wonder does he need psychiatric help?
2006-07-03 10:32:45 · 42 answers · asked by monica x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't need help, he's not unwell. He just has a sexual quirk that's all. A lot of people have sexual quirks. Your boyfriend is a cross-dresser. Most cross-dressers are heterosexual and have no desire to become female.
His fetish doesn't hurt anyone but if you don't like it, then you should leave him. It's who he is. You can't change him, like it or lump it, I'm afraid!
2006-07-04 03:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually around 90% of men who dress in womens clothes are STRAIGHT!!! BELIEVE IT OR NOT! LOL. Its true, for some reason, they like women. As a gay man I don't understand it either, but those are the statistics.
There's nothing sick or sad or silly about it, he just loves the feel. Now about going out dressed that way . . . wow, I have no idea about that. I guess to be "safe" you could go to a gay bar, but you'd be uncomfortable there most likely and the only reason to go there is so he wouldn't get beat up in any public place for crossdressing. Maybe (and I know there are) other straight men who crossdress in that area, he should look around for others into the same thing so he'll be safe.
Also, you need to decide your future with him. I'm sure there are PLENTY of Yahoo! Groups with wives/girlfriends of crossdressers, if not, start one!!!
Lol, if he's your size, he could double your wardrobe!
2006-07-03 11:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he was just wanting to do it at home in privacy I wouldn't think too much of it. But since he's wanting to go out dressed like that I can see your concern. Some men never take it any further than just dressing the part. But unless you have a good long talk with him you'll never know just how far he wants to go with this thing. Good luck
2006-07-03 10:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol psychiatric help no.. He is a cross dresser transvestite whatever you choose to call them. Most of them are perfectly straight. However this is not something that is gonna improve it will only get worse as he gets more comphertable with what he is so if you can not deal with this leave now save yourself the heartache.. It's like being homosexual you can not change it.
2006-07-03 10:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be gay, but I doubt it. He's a crossdresser and finds it exciting to be with a woman while dressed, probably has some sort of lesbian fetish too. If I were you I'd let him do it once...go out with him fully dressed, makeup, wig the whole thing. See what happens, see if he wants to do it again. Then decide for yourself what you are going to do...if its something you can handle or not.
2006-07-03 10:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jay H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just got a women's clothes fetish. Some guys like feet, some other guys like shower caps (question from today), I like a flat belly. It's all about what turns you on. Can you deal with it, is the big question.
2006-07-03 10:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES HE DOES NEED HELP FAST and if any of my m8s did dat i know i would not b able to stop my self from taking the piss out of em so i think i would b best if u talk to em and try to get em to stop or go shoping lmao
2006-07-03 11:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by lightning :-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think he is going to get any better so maybe you ought to be thinking about wether you actually want a boyfriend or a girlfriend.
2006-07-03 10:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to be comfortable with himself. If he wants to were your clothes then there's something he's not telling you, and there's something he's not admitting to himself. Getting help might not be a bad idea.
2006-07-03 10:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys like doing this sort of thing, its more common than people thing. Hes not ill its just a fetish
2006-07-09 05:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋