My BF lives down the block, I see him once a week, he syas he is tired from work-works 12 hr shifts, he lying?

Question

but somedays a few days off a week 2 to 3 but says he is tired & wants to sleep in. When I do go over there he asks me to leave somtimes-he says he wants to sleep! IS he fool of **** & just dont want me anymore? Its ok cause I dont want him either. i actually am starting to hate him after crying for the last 12 months.

Answer 1

I can promise you that he IS TIRED.

I can (almost) promise you that He's not completely committed to the relationship.

Too bad that you two couldn't have had better communication, it might have caused the relationship to work, but I would suggest that you "bow out gracefully" and move on..........

Try not to hate him, and definately DON'T HATE YOURSELF over this.......working 12 hrs shifts are really stressful, I know because I do this, but in life, one chooses how to spend their "off time"........and you are not his priority, so I suggest that you quit putting yourself through the pain of not understanding.

Good luck to you, and remember, it's not your fault.
Who knows --- time apart (by your choice) might just make Him realize and change his way.

Answer 2

Ok. You are wanting to stay a virgin and he wants to have sex with you. He may be asleep- Have you ever worked a 12 hour shift? Or he may need sex and he's out getting it. That is the way guys are made to be.

You have been with him for 4 years without giving him sex??? Of course he's cheating!

Answer 3

You should come on my block, cause he lyin