I just had my 2ed child 6wks ago and i want to get it on with my husband but by the time we get them both to bed i am to tired and belive me i want it bad but i am just to tired and that makes it hard to get motivated, what should i do
2006-07-03 09:59:26 · 7 answers · asked by pebbles68_2004 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
spice it up!!! get one of your hot friends to join so you dont gotta work so hard be a freak!!
2006-07-03 10:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try exercise during the day. Run or walk in place during your daily routine. Have weights by the phone and lift them while you talk. Do arm curls with your baby after changing him or her. Do sit-ups in sets of 20 during tv commercials, or in odd times in the day where you get a chance. The more energy you use, the more your body will have on hand. Load the babies into a double stroller and walk around the neighborhood at a nap time.
And most of all, talk to your husband. Tell him you are feeling more tired now and less sexy. Try to take showers with him, and keep those communication lines open. A guy can only take rejection so many times before they quit asking, so make sure he knows its hormones talking and not you being cold or mean. Husbands can be very understanding if you just give them a chance. And sometimes, roll over and start things, even if you don't feel like it. He'll love it, and after a few minutes you will too. Its hard balancing a new baby and a happy husband, but the first step is talking to him.
2006-07-03 17:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some help. I also had this problem when my children were babies. Sleep was precious! And, there was so much to do during the day. Tons of dishes and bottles. A million burp rags and blankets covered in spit up. Then, wash the baby from all that eating and spitting up just so that she can do it again. Then there is cooking and vaccuming...all while listening to crying! It is physically and emotionaly exhausting. Maybe if this low sex drive is also a concern for you husband, which I'm assuming it is, you should talk with him about it and make him understand how exhausted you are. He should pitch in. It won't hurt for him to thro in a load of laundry or sweep the floor or bathe the baby. Then, maybe you'd feel more like it!
2006-07-03 17:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get your day ended earlier bump up dinner and a bath. Run them around early in the day take them to the park or let them play really hard outside.then by a certain time (convenient for you) have dinner ready and the shortly after follows a bath they should be out like a light. Try to get the kids tired earlier so that you can have more time for you and your husband later. it works most of the time cause i have the same prob with one.
2006-07-03 17:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by it's a girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting some sensual oils and some cute sexy outfits, maids outfit and nurses outfits help. There are games out there, dice, books with tear out pages that have sex themes for you to try, they are fun and something to make the experience something to really look forward to, and it gets the 4 play rolling and it wakes you up too.
2006-07-03 17:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by new mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take 2 days off a month (or whatever fits you best) go somewhere nice with him,
then get home to a quiiet empty house, no distractions, turn the phone off and freak the hell out of him
he he
2006-07-03 17:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay there. I'm sorry but if I don't get it for a long time my expectations for love making are not high.
Just lay there and hook me up.
2006-07-03 18:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋