I've gone out with men his age before but he's different. I want to be with him but got to finish school. It seems like everyone is against our love. Anybody thinks we can make it. I know I love him. Cuz I usually go for men that can give me something I want. I usually go out with men that are hot wether young or old and that can give me things. But with him I'm so in love. Will we make it. I just want to know how people feel about age difference even when I say I am really in love with him.
2006-07-03 09:56:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you truly love him and know he is the one for you, then go for it! I'm backing you up!
2006-07-03 09:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty Chick 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask yourself really why do you want to be with someone who is ready to probably get married have kids and that's that! I mean your only nineteen you have so much life to live and have fun now !! I have sisters older then me that did that and they regret growing up so fast. Had kids before they were twenty-one and married. That is why I am twenty-three and living it up till I decide I've had enough! Enjoy life this guy has a lot of game on you and he knows what he's doing not saying you don't, but age does bring wisdom along with it. I think you could be in love with him though I think two or three years is enough. If you had kids with this guy think about it? There has to be guys around your age that find you attractive!! Good luck!
2006-07-03 17:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Turtlechica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a lucky guy. However, in order for this relationship to last long term, you will have to face a lot of hurdles. The big thing is that at 19 you still have a lot of life to experience. If you are with this guy you will not get to do all the things that your friends are going to do and experience in the next 5 years. You will miss out on all those things and you will never be able to get them back. So the question is can you accept what you will miss out on in life and not have regrets 10 or 20 years from now?
2006-07-03 17:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny when I was 19 I loved to be with women that were older. Now I am older and Oh so love to be with girls that are younger. Life is strange. wait till your are 30 then find someone and just settle, nasty to be a 50 year old acting 20 looking for a teen to be with foe a few minutes...
2006-07-03 17:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by readthesmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm over 40 and i beleive you love him and age should not matter at all. If i could see you ,you might give me chance on romance.
Good-luck on your relationship. It can work out and many have proved that.Try and make sure guys like me don't try and take you away from him.
I'm a smooth talker Betty Crocker.
I have alot to offer. To a sweet ,positive girl,in life. ENJOY !
(Is he jeoulous yet?)
2006-07-03 17:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by baddog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should examine what you have in common.
I find a lot of girls who are twenty something (I'm 45) attractive, but after having a conversation with them I find out that we have very little in common.
If you are looking for a long term relationship, you should look beyond any physical attributes your potential mate may have and look for other things that draw you together.
2006-07-03 17:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by mrite44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you believe you're in love, what is it they say, "Love is blind" ?? Well I guess Love Doesn't Jusge By Age is true too!
Best of luck to both of you! Hopefully this age difference won't pose a problem though. As my mom says, "It's only a problem if it's a problem to you."
Love, Princess
2006-07-03 17:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Coraa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work out whatever issues you have with older men and get with someone closer to your age! It may work in the short-term but it will not in the long-term.
2006-07-03 17:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Smiley girl and guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they say love comes in all different shapes and sizes.....well in your case the age is involed but how i see it if you are in love you should take a chance you never know he might be the one.....so i say go for it thats what i would do......hope i helped....
2006-07-03 17:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Gator chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really and i mean really love him then why should it matter. God made a match for us that comes in all different shapes sizes ages and race. Just be careful. and good luck
2006-07-03 17:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by beach babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!! I have been witness to my parents' twenty year difference and it doesn't work....no matter how much you love him! Get someone in your own generation (approx. 10 or less years between you two)!
2006-07-03 17:02:27 · answer #11 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋