i met a guy in the msn, at the beggining everything was going good but then he became annoying because he always was like we should go out sometime and then everyday he remainded and remainded and i met him 2 weeks ago on the msn, he is my cousin's friend i would not have a problem going out with him but then i got another problem he confesed me that he was in love with me and i seriously dont want go out with him!!!!!!!!! so how do i sacare him so he leaves me alone, or how do i make myself clear without making him get mad at me????????? any comments or suggestions are welcome
thanks
2006-07-03 09:55:53 · 19 answers · asked by *ippy* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him youare taking time to discover yourself and you have no room for anyone else in that process....
2006-07-03 09:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation a while back, the best thing to do is to find out the things he dislike in a woman and professed you are all those things. for example, if he says he love kids, say you hate them. another thing to do is to tell him that you have a boyfriend. If that still does not work tell him you are at a point in your life where you are trying to find yourself and you are not ready to get into a relationship. The last resort is to avoid him all cost
2006-07-03 10:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus...woa...woa! I didn't know guys could be that clingy. I mean has he even seen your pic. If so he's in it for the sex or has a good feeling about you too. Some guys "fall" in love quickly. Scary, I know. Tell him the truth, that you don't want a relationship right know and that you are not over your ex or make up a name.
2006-07-03 10:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by nomucatoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving him alone and in the same time he will do as well!
Getting worried or annoyed doesn't resolve anything,beside making him believe you have a whatever interest even if your behavior shows the opposite!
2006-07-03 10:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by faunpas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't like him why are you chating with him you should get a different e-mail or just tell him the true but try to not hurt his feeling.I hope my answer helps you.
~Mia
2006-07-03 10:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a little more sociopathic. Who cares if he likes you? Say this: "I do not want to date you anymore. I hope you will respect my decision, which I do not wish to discuss." And then walk away. Don't be afraid of other people. They are like weak little lambs.
2006-07-03 09:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by mccauley4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've been flirtatious online you're in quite a pickle now aren't you. Just simply tell him you are not interested and was just having fun - then apologize if you were leading him on and mean it.
2006-07-03 09:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me, but in actuality, i liked him too. you need to look deep into your heart and make that choice. if he is honestly not your type, then tell him. nothing is worse than leading on someone that has true and honest feelings for you. Would you want someone to do that to you? Be honest with yourself, then you can be freely honest with him.
2006-07-03 10:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about making him mad at you. He should be more concerned with what he will say to the police if he keeps bothering you.
2006-07-03 09:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he's mad at you? If you don't want to see him, just tell him. He's going to be upset regardless of what you do or say.
2006-07-03 10:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anna Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋