my friend has an std, hpv, but is scared to tell her man, they are not intimate but what happens if they get married in the future?
2006-07-03 09:12:52 · 14 answers · asked by latina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey I have an STD and I thought you should know, because I love you and I don't want there to be any secrets between us. I'll be glad to answer any questions you have concerning it.
There that wasn't hard.
2006-07-03 09:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by mike53153 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cares about him, she will tell. An STD isnt just a normal thing, it is a deadly sickness. Eventually he is going to want to have babies and she will have no choice but to tell him. She loves him with all of her heart and I am sure she would melt if she had spread it to him. I know it is hard but she just needs to get him alone, and tell him. No tricks. Just be brave and tell him. And if he is a good boi toy he will love her with all of her heart anyways.
2006-07-03 16:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the right to know and the best way to tell him is in private and get straight to the point. He's taking a risk of contracting this disease by "being" with her and should be well aware of it. Wouldn't you want to know?
2006-07-03 16:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u go, "mama, i gotta std and i prob gave it to u. sry."
also, i think people who gonna get married have to take a test to see if they have any stds before they get married. so they would know that they're spouse has anythin or not
2006-07-03 16:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by dyboy34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to tell him. Even if they aren't intimate yet, don't you think he has a right to know before he gets in any deeper?
2006-07-03 16:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by BluBrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must tell him. She should do it when the lights and clothes are on. She must educate herself and her lover about how to handle this properly. If she is judged for her past by someone who says he loves her now then they have bigger problems.
2006-07-03 16:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really love him, she has to tell him and if he really loves her he will stand by her. it happened to me, this guy that i really love wanted to make love with me and i had to confess to him that i have std, he didn't care we made love and both went for treatment a year later we got married today that cool guy is my husband.
2006-07-03 16:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by braveheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to just sit down with him and tell him. Cause if he finds out that she hasn't told him and there real serious, he might get mad and she may loose him.
2006-07-03 17:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she has got to tell him before something does happen. If he is worth anything he wont care.
2006-07-03 16:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got the clap and they are not intimate so i don't think he is her man or at least she got a f.u.c.k.e.d up idea of a man
2006-07-03 16:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋