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ok, theres this guy at college that i really like, i mean more than anyone else ever. But, the thing is, he is the most popular guy in school, whereas im the brainy girl everyone asks for help with work. But recently, he told me friend by accident that if he was to go out with anyone, it would be me. Since then, we have spoken on the phone quite a lot, and we keep catching each others eye, but i don't think he is interested. He has never had a girlfriend in school, and has said he is not interested in one, but i don't know whether to say anything to him. I would die if i didnt and he would have said yes. what should i do!!

2006-07-03 09:06:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

oh! forgot to add that he is majorly sporty - runs 6 miles and day and lives for golf! and has the best body ever!

2006-07-03 10:39:56 · update #1

21 answers

He OBVIOUSLY likes you, or he wouldn't be speaking on the phone to you. Stop being so full of self doubt, sounds like he's doing enough of that for both of you. It's just the timing of getting you two together...
Okay, time to unleash the wild woman within! Don't go for a full frontal attack - enjoy the chase - just keep smiling and believing that you are 100 per cent gorgeous (he's probably feeling inadequate because you are bright AND beautiful). Then find out where you are likely to bump into him and be there. Drop hints, bat your eyes, flirt a little, mention parties you'll be at and say 'you should come along'... you're a woman, you can do this, use every trick and talent we were given, but PROMISE to tell us what happens next... ooooh!

2006-07-03 09:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Empea 3 · 12 7

ok your at college
means you must have some inteligence
what is 1 +1 = 2
get your brain into full gear now
go for it
you may find 1+1 could equal 3 or 4 or more
in years to come
with the patter of tiny feet
good luck

2006-07-03 16:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0 0

Don't' make this so dramatic - when you are talking on the phone some time, just say, let's or would you like to meet for coffee tomorrow - or whenever, but, some specific time. Are you in any of the same classes? You can even say you will be working of some of the homework - would he like to work on it together. That way you save face, if he is not interested.

2006-07-03 16:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by moonmother2000 4 · 0 0

If he said that to you, he definetly likes you. Some men have a way of showing that they have interest in you. Other men don't like to show it, but they really like you. Ask him to go out with you, and if he says no, nothings wrong with that. Just say, That's alright and leave. You guys can still be friends.
But at least he knows that you like him. Maybe later he'll come back to you.

2006-07-03 16:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Nick Jonas 2 · 0 0

You pretty much answered your own question...You will never know what his answer will be if you don't ask. When you do, just say hay I was just wondering if you'd like to go out sometime, I have heard you really don't want a gf right now, so we can still be friends if not...

2006-07-03 16:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0 0

well it seems like he is a guy that likes to keep his priorities straight, wich means he like you and wants to date you, but he does not want that to make it to where he cant concentrate in school cause his grades come first. so in this case i would just tell him this. i know that you know i am interested in you, and i understand that right now you have to put your school first cause it is your first priority, but if you decide that dating me is something you can do either now or later, just let me know , but for now i am tottaly ok with just being your friend. try something like that. good luck.

2006-07-03 16:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0 0

Hun, you have to say something, cause you don't want to be saying to yourself for the rest of your life what if? what if? it's not right. You have to let your heart guide you, do what is best for you, but i would take the chance.

2006-07-03 17:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kath 2 · 0 0

Don't push it he is obviously a shy guy suggest studying together see how he responds to that. take it slow and enjoy his friendship as it stands or if you really can't stand the curiosity yo could get your friend to accidentally tell him you like him.

2006-07-03 16:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0 0

Be a friend... Get in close and be the best friend he has ever had...

Don't try to be his girlfriend, if he ain't ready... Just be the first person he comes to when he has a problem... ;)

2006-07-03 16:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0 0

MAYBE U COULD MAKE A STAND ABOUT YOURSELF THAT UR NOT JUST A BRAINIAC AND IF UR STILL TALKIN TO HIM CUZ MAYBE U CAN FLIRT A LIL BIT AND SAY SOMTHIN LIKE ''UR NOT LOOKIN 4 A GURL SO HOW ABOUT U CHANGE THAT AND GO OUT WITH ME'' SOUND A LIL FLIRTY WIT IT

2006-07-03 16:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ashanti W 2 · 0 0

girl i had the same problem until i saw the guy i liked coming out of class and i told him everything and it turned out that he liked me to so take a chance and go for it... ; )

2006-07-03 16:21:27 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. Sexy Business ;) 1 · 0 0

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