I dont know how i should feel becouse before I knew she was kind of wild and know shes not I really like her but that sometimes makes me feel uncomfortable knowing that shes had alot more experiences and Im just starting
2006-07-03 09:02:42 · 24 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it would bug me too if my boyfriend was like that and his a guy, i can imagine how you feel cuz its your girlfriend, but listen let the past be the past and enjoy the future it will bug you sometimes but you gotta let it be, if she has changed then dont stress if and enjoy yourself while it lasts. dont let something like that ruin your relationship, after all if you like her and she has changed then forget about it and move on.
2006-07-03 09:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You judge her for who she is today. There may be things in your past that she doesn't like either. The past is the past and only she knows why she did the things she did. Talk about it, it might help but remember you call her your girlfriend so u must love her. If you can't get over her past then don't hurt her by staying together, she will be able to pick up on your feelings. You both have the same amount of experience because it really starts when two people get together. You learn things about her and she learns things about you. That is the experience that matters. Good luck.
2006-07-03 09:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by confused/hurt/angry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her past did not stop you from nailing her. What happens in the past should be put aside unless there are health issues like diseases. You could take comfort in knowing she stays with you instead of trading you in for a better lover. If her past is something you are unable to deal with then leave her alone. A person changes as they go through life and the old saying that loose women make the best wives, seems to have some merit. They know whats out there and do not need to look anymore. If She is faithful and fun to be with then let the past go.
2006-07-03 09:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to remember is that people change. If she's not a whore now, then make sure she's clean and try to trust her. It must have taken a lot of guts for her to tell you that, so be patient and try to see things from her side. She must care about what you think or she wouldn't have told you. And besides, you might learn something from her. How long has she been a non-whore would be the other question. If it's only been a short time, then make sure she's not just taking a breather.....
2006-07-03 09:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by BluBrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a possessive control freak if you cannot get over her past. If you do not deal with this issue you have now, you have no hope of being happy with a girl in the future. If you feel you will give her any crap about this at all, even if you are drunk or in a bad mood or something, then just break up with her now. Otherwise never speak of it again and if you think about it, tell youself that you don't want to be a controlling person.
2006-07-03 09:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she gets tested for one thing. But a person's choices in the past are best left...in the past. Don't doubt yourself because you're a beginner. Just think of it as a way for her to be kinky and fun. More pleasure for you. Of course, it shouldn't get boring if she's open to different kinds of sex and not afraid to try new things. Do some reading, get some ideas and put them into action with her. All that matters now is that she's changed for the better.
2006-07-03 09:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mama23Girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be kinda a whore? Whore is a strong word, either you are one or you aren't. I suspect she was never a whore, you are just jealous that she has had more experiences than you. Or maybe you are self conscious because you don't feel like you have much to offer in bed. Either way, relax and let her teach you some things, i bet you will be glad you did later.
2006-07-03 09:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she had started her life over with you and now she likes you for you and not just for sex yes she was but now she is not. she has experiance but you can tell her that you have now experiance and most likely she will help0 and show you the right way. what she did is in the past she is makeing a clean start and she would like to have a clean start with you. don't feel bad that was all before you and i am sure she had a hard time confruntiing her issue and you have to comfrunt your issue.
2006-07-03 09:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by jpaone1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is just that the past and you need to let the past go. You knew what she was like before you got involved with her.
So try and get over it. Everybody desevrves second chances. You are not god so don't judge. If you have a hard time dealing with her past then you need to break up with her,
2006-07-03 09:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After she gets tested for STDs, what she is doing now is all that really matters. Except for the benefits from all that past knowledge and experience. I'll bet she knows what she likes and probably knows what you like too. Maybe more than you do yourself. Psychological baggage is always a consideration too. Learn from her.
2006-07-03 09:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly just go with the flow who cares if she has more experience that just means she can teach you stuff and i am sure she doesnt know as much as you think so you two can learn some freaky things together. if you are letting this get to you then it will always stand in the way of your relationship cause it is just going to be that big elephant standing in the middle of the room
2006-07-03 09:06:44 · answer #11 · answered by Andi_253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋